I’ve always wondered about this…If I’m having a good time vibing to some music with my friends or sometimes on my own because I’ve lost them.. often I notice a girl (or a group of girls) move to same area/stand in front of me. Then I start to notice this over exaggerated dancing that seems to bump into me an awful lot ( if on purpose it’s very annoying by the way), shoulders bumping/elbows in ribs, hair flicking into my face, sometimes if it’s a very crowded place a bum backing up into you, sometimes I swear I feel taps on my back and i try to find the person tapping me and I start to get paranoid lol. I’ll usually just keep dancing or chilling to the music but might try catch the girls eye to see if she’s attractive. I’ll smile at her if I catch her eye and if she’s not totally annoying ill dance with her a bit.
But overall it is awkward and annoying especially if it’s throwing me off me dancing and having a good time. Is this just my imagination? or do girls intentionally behave like this? If so, is it just for attention or are you trying to hook up? What do you expect us to do? It can be too loud to talk and the one thing I hate doing is looking like a creep. Most of the time all I want to do is vibe. If you want to flirt why not be more direct? It doesn’t come across well in my opinion and the longer you do it it just creates this really awkward feeling for me and I assume you as well. What is going through your mind (if this is a thing)?
