Is he still interested in me?

[Lucielu1]

I have been talking to this guy from the gym for several months now and I thought he was interested in me but lately I’ve noticed he doesn’t talk as much and isn’t as flirty. He used to ask things about me and seemed really interested in what I have to say but now it’s just casual conversation. When we first started talking I hurt my arm and was wearing a brace and he would say I don’t want to look all cute wearing it and how tiny I am. One day he said how nice my hair looks I told him I was meeting a friend and I think he assumed it was a guy I was meeting because he asked me how it went the next day but since then he’s been less flirty I don’t know if it’s he’s not interested or things I’m not. I don’t know what to do.

[kylee2437]

This happened to me also. Communication is key. Ask him how he is feeling about the situation and let him know that his actions aren’t matching up to when you first started talking. Also , let him chase! Men get super bored when they know they have won a girl fully over. You need to let him know that you will walk away if your needs aren’t being met. Men will take advantage of a woman that will stay regardless of how he treats her

[Anonymous]

There could be someone else in the picture. But regardless, why not just tell him you were interested rather than this guessing game?