Does this mean he really wants to see me and maybe still interested?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been on and off with this guy. Recently I started texting him cuz I was in a bad situation. And then I asked if he wanna hang today. He agreed to it. Due to his work schedule, I told him he can just come over my place. Plus I didn’t know if getting dinner is too much pressure that sounds like a date if he don’t wanna try things again.

He started telling me how he has OT where he won’t be done until after 8. I said it’s fine, I l wanna see him but it’s a lot for him or too late.. we don’t have to meet today. All he said is he just has to be home by 11 and so he don’t shower too late (assuming due to him having work early).
but it made me realized we will only see each other for 1-2 hour… does this mean he really wanna see me? Or still interested? Wasn’t sure if I should reschedule for a better day and time

[CuriousJC]

At least you have somebody to come see you. You know how hard it is for people to actually see each other without making an excuse or keep bringing up an I owe you each time? I've been in so many relationships to the point where they blame me for cheating on them because they refused to let me see them. At least you have somebody to hang out with instead of being by yourself every day until the person you want to see is available and still not available.

[Asker]

Yeah I know it’s hard… does it mean he really wanted to see me or still interested?

[Emerald55346]

I think all guys in the back of there mind are thinking about hooking up, if they are coming to your home alone that late

[Asker]

Maybe so. But we do have history of being serious and then not working out. We did hooked up but to me it’s not just a hook up.. we hold hands after and as we walked out.. and he was sweet enough to walk me back in.. then kiss my forehead, nose, and lips.. so I don't know I’m hoping it’s not just sex but something more of what we had before with the sweet kisses and hand holding

[Emerald55346]

Maybe he wants that too then

[Asker]

I hope you’re right… because I know I love him. Just sadly he hasn’t been ready for a full committed relationship cuz his life issues. So I’m hoping now he’s in a better head space and place, maybe just maybe we can make it this time…

[Shamalien]

He sounds busy

[Asker]

He is but he was still gonna see me.. does that mean anything?

[Shamalien]

You sound pretty pushy it might just be him giving in and being polite

[Asker]

Me being pushy? I told him that we didn’t have to meet today anymore cuz he works a lot and it was late but he still insist

[Shamalien]

Your the one who asked if he wanted to hang