Why do a lot of males tend to have some animosity towards from right out of the gate?

[Anonymous]

I've never been able to get along with 8/10 males. from the get go

I'm. not a social/sexual threat

I don't own a. vehicle & only ever worked very low income jobs like janitorial assistants,& I don't get along with the opposite sex either

The only 2 things I have going for me are that I'm in great shape & I boxed a bit back in HS

So I don't see how I'm a threat

[CindersFire]

Why do you assume it is becuase you're a threat? It seems that you dont have a very good opinion of yourself, so why should you expect anyone else to have a good opinion of you. Human relationships almost invariable end up in some sort of hierarchy, and if you're putting yourself at the bottom why would anyone with any desire to climb said hierarchy want a relationship with you. That said their are advantages to "playing your own game" and this has been shown repeatedly, but that it is never going to win you popularity contests. So your either going to need to live with what you have, or learn to not up and learn to compete.