Guy I went on two dates with keeps texting me?

[Anonymous]

So a few months ago I went on two dates with a guy.
But he keeps texting me ever since as like friends and I can’t understand why?
Like at night he be saying things like oh the winter is so cold I’d love to have someone to cuddle and I’m like sameee..
but like this guy hasn’t even asked me on a third date and talks to me as if we’re mates I don't know..
I’m like I don’t mind chatting but dude why I treating me like a friend I don’t want a friend lol I have friends

[YHL6965]

Instead of waiting for him to make a move, I highly suggest making a move yourself. You can't just expect something to happen and then be disappointed when it does not happen. You want something to happen, make it happen if it does not happen on its own.

[Anonymous]

He’s hinting he wants you to make it official. Or at least ask him out. Basically he wants some sign that you’re really into him.

[Asker]

Lol should he not be telling me or showing me he’s into me tho?

[Opinion Owner]

True. He is showing you by hinting he really wants to cuddle up with you.

[Asker]

But he didn’t say me he just keeps saying about having someone and I’m like sameee but like Why tell me that

[Opinion Owner]

He means you! He’s hinting he wants to go out with you again

[Asker]

I don't know I feel like it’s just general chat like if he wanted to cuddle me he would ask me on a third date or like make more of an effort all I get is car talk from him lol he’s brutal with convo I just feel like he thinks of me as a mate

[Opinion Owner]

Try asking him to hang out again

[peacesncream]

He maybe started to be interested in u

[Asker]

But he doesn’t show it even on my two dates with him I felt like I was so friendzoned lol like the more he chats to be the more I feel like we’re just mates lol and I hate it

[peacesncream]

He expressing it through text

[Asker]

What that were mates now lol

[peacesncream]

I mean if u like him?

[Asker]

Well I’d like to go on a third date tbh

[peacesncream]

Can you try in ask him? Just tell u you enjoyed the last two date and spending time with him

[Asker]

But it was months ago

[peacesncream]

Oh ok

[peacesncream]

He still single right?

[Asker]

Yes he is

[peacesncream]

Tell him how u feel about the situation

[Asker]

I just don’t know how to tho

[peacesncream]

U call him or either text tell him that u know it's been some months since u to talk much or went out but u wants to do them fun things again with him

[peacesncream]

Or whatever Is on your mind u will feel better

[msc545]

what do you want him to do?

[Asker]

Well like if it’s just friends he wants I want him to stop talking to me as much as it’s a bit weird lol

[msc545]

Try asking him what he wants

[Asker]

I don’t know what to say lol

[msc545]

you say "what do you want? What kind of relationship shall we have?"