I told him I like him (but he has a pregnant girlfriend) do you think he’s respectful and I can stop feeling weird around him?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

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So he deleted this message and replied to it again with a less complimentive one saying I was a great client and he apologies I feel this way and hopes I keep training I just said thanks for being understanding and he’s cool despite my attraction to him.. thennnn he said we are still friends and he’ll still say hi. Interesting

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nothing to feel weird about you like him but he has someone you did the honorable thing and removed yourself from that equation what you did was very admirable to me and im so proud of you. People always talk about doing the right thing but seldom do the right thing and you did so good for you

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Thank you! And he just sounds like he’s trying to be a gentleman about it by complimenting me cause we both know he’s taken.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Exactly 💯

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO

[Alex8736]

any further questions? 🤣

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I’m not a hoe.:/

[spartan55]

I love how you just expect everyone to overlook the fact that you were trying to get with a dude in a relationship... just no shame

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

@spartan55 wtf! I wasn’t trying to get with him I straight up said I knew it wasn’t reciprocated nowhere did I try to ask him out or get with him

[roy_ricky09]

When you already knew he has a girlfriend why would you even think of liking him

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

How can I just switch off liking someone it doesn’t work like that but yes she’s heavily pregnant so I knew I wouldn’t have a chance but I wanted to get it off my chest

[roy_ricky09]

You know these things ruin relationships.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I already knew he would never get with me he tells me about her and he’s very open that he has a girlfriend so I was sure confessing my feelings would have zero adverse affect on his relationship with the mother of his kid he is clearly very besotted with her as he isn’t shy in telling me about her and posting with her etc

[roy_ricky09]

Well if you say so I hope it doesn't become a mess

[roy_ricky09]

Also you should read your previous post very carefully. It has all answers. Follow me if you want

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I should read the comments or read what I written?

[roy_ricky09]

Read your chat that you pasted

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I don’t think he likes me the same way but I think he likes me as a friend and is flattered nothing wrong with that

[roy_ricky09]

Like I said if that's what you think... There's no such thing as friends... That's BS

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

So your saying he likes me or he doesn’t?

[roy_ricky09]

It doesn't matter... He has a girlfriend with a kid. You shouldn't get involved with him in any way. Period.
I'm not typing anymore here... Message me if you want. Else cheers

[roy_ricky09]

Told you

[spartan55]

Why would you tell him that? Pretty tacky.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I really wanted to get it off my chest. They say honesty is the best policy

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Do you think he might show his buddies and they laugh cause I don’t know if he would

[spartan55]

Wow, you are so clueless. You are worried about him sharing with his buddies? I don't even know what to say except I would have kept your feelings to yourself...

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Can I ask why you are advising me to keep my feelings to myself? I’m not clueless I’m very aware he’s taken and that’s that I just wanted to get it off my chest I don’t see what’s wrong. Apart from it seemed to have gotten to his head a little bit

[spartan55]

You showed no respect for his relationship at all, only about how you felt. What you did could ruin his relationship tbh.
Laying that on him puts him in an awkward spot for no reason. So you can get it off your chest? From the outside it looks like you were only thinking about yourself.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I hear you and thanks for being honest and explaining it to me, at the end of the day she is heavily pregnant about to pop I knew he's clearly not going to do anything to jeopardise their family together. I go to the gym and I’m friendly with his colleagues he openly posts his girlfriend and her pregnancy so I knew ain’t no way he’s gonna show interest in me knowing the chances of it getting back to her would be high. So I felt like apart from him maybe being in an awkward spot i am causing no harm other than potential future temptation providing they argue or take time apart. But that would be my que to remember my morals. To me it sounds like the guy loves her enough that he doesn’t care for my interest probably a good guy