Should I be embarrassed to see him in person again after expressing really liking him?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

(He has a pregnant girlfriend) he’s my personal trainer. he deleted the message where he called me pretty & taken my interest as a compliment.

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Update: I seen him in person he never said hi so I assume he respects I don’t want that given I ignored his text saying he would still greet me. He looks at me and checks me out but I’m sure he’s keeping his distance

[roy_ricky09]

Stop it. Are you blind. Don't you see the msgs and what you have done already.. I explained you that already still you are stuck at it.
It looks like you are more interested in him than he's in you and you want him to continue with you... You just don't want to admit that

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

no I don’t. Why would I want someone else’s man?

[roy_ricky09]

The. Stop obsessing over it. Don't you have a life to worry about than this

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I’m just an over thinker that’s all

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

What do you mean “don’t you see what you already done” because I confessed my feelings and he complimented me so I’ve put him in an awkward spot

[FilmGuy93]

Don't be embarrassed, just recognize that he is taken and move on with your day lol

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Your right why should I let it bother me when the outcome is clear

[FilmGuy93]

Nothing wrong with finding someone attractive!

[rienna888]

He seems happy to find out you were attracted to him. Don’t worry girl, you probably made him very happy. And you’re beautiful you will find the man of your dreams

[Anonymous]

No just see him as if nothing ever happened and put the ball in his court, so to speak. You never know where things will go.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Honestly I am not sure he has a girl but at least if anything I got a friend out of it haha

[spartan55]

Oh wow girl you are still on this? He said everything is cool etc... so this is sounding a bit obsessive at this point.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I’m just scared to see him in person not that I think he cares enough to talk about it when he’s busy working just don’t want to be a laughing stalk. It’s weird he deleted the message.

[spartan55]

Laughing stock? You think guys sit around and talk about shit like that? Lol...😂 Nope.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I have known some guys to do that but then again they were highly immature and given the topic lasted about a total of 40 secs before they where onto something else

[spartan55]

Okay. So you think the thing most on his mind isn't his pregnant girlfriend, money, his car breaking down, paying bills, buying baby crap... NONE OF THAT. He is only thinking about you? Really?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

and ontop of that it is also minus levels weather here he’s probably just gonna be thankful he made it to work let alone if some client that has the hots for him came in that day ur right I’m overthinking it

[spartan55]

Just stop, anything you say beyond small talk to him at this point is red 🚩 flag crazy alert.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I’m not gonna talk to him I am treating it as a speak if spoken to situation on text and in person. Did I really make myself seem crazy? I don’t even mean it

[spartan55]

Yeah, because you keep making it all about you. I suggest working on your self awareness, most women are sorely lacking in that department.
So hold on, you will just ignore him, and not even say hello unless he does first? That just makes you look petty and bitter. Just act like everything is cool. (because to HIM it is) remember this isn't all about you.

[Angryfrog]

I wouldn't be embarrised key is to act like nothing was said and soon enough it will feel that way.

[Bklynbadboy12]

No why should you be embarrassed you conducted yourself the way a good woman should and im so proud of you

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Thank you! I think being honest about your feelings to give yourself peace of mind is fine

[Bklynbadboy12]

I'd really like to chat with you I have so many questions follow me so we can chat

[TallAnon]

He called you a pal ☠
Yes.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

As he would he has a pregnant girl

[TallAnon]

Indeed

[Neilbud]

Nah... just laugh and move on.

[LazerBean]

Yes.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Can I ask why?

[LazerBean]

People who come onto someone who is not only taken, but having a child with someone else should always be ashamed, because it's a shameful thing to do.

[roy_ricky09]

@LazerBean no point in telling her... She is not going to understand what she has done already instead justifying herself

[LazerBean]

Oh, I know. I just wanted to make sure she won't be able to say nobody warned her when she reaps the consequences of her actions.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I face the consequences of my actions tomorrow, at the gym oh well. I did nothing wrong I was not flirting or pursing him

[spartan55]

Wow, OP really doesn't get it.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

@spartan55 you guys are trying to say I put him in an awkward spot and shouldn’t have even put out temptation by telling him I’m interested cause it’s disrespectful to his relationship w/ his pregnant girl and I’ve already caused a problem if he’s deleting messages? Bascially?

[spartan55]

Uh... no? That's a huge assumption over something so minor. You keep circling back to the deleted message like it's the key to the whole story. Maybe he did it on purpose, maybe it was a mistake, or an oversight, maybe his girlfriend did it, maybe she didn't... maybe it doesn't fucking matter...

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

@spartan55 I just don’t understand what ALL of you are saying “She just doesn’t get it” when I’ve said time and time again I know what I did was selfish…

[spartan55]

Time and time again where? I suggested you were being selfish, where did you?

[spartan55]

Why are you now saying you aren't sure he has a girlfriend?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

@spartan55 if he’s being understanding about it and not calling me selfish or telling me admitting it was wrong why are u and no I meant I’m not sure where things will go , he has a girl. No I understood before that it was disrespecting his relationship but I truly didn’t see it that way cause he’s not like that he’s very professional at his work he was literally having that convo via his business phone I knew fine well to him it’s not an option to see me as more than a friend / former client

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Obviously you have a certain opinion about me so I’m not gonna try change your mind I get it. I put my own interest and feelings before his relationship with the mother of his kid. It wasn’t the kindest move toward someone I like but its done now

[spartan55]

Not sure why you think what I am saying here is anyway personal, because it's certainly not.
Why am I saying you were selfish, etc... uh... because you were? You only admitted you were after I explained why. You didn't think that you were wrong and said as much. I don't get what him not saying those things matters? That doesn't make any sense. Reading back through ALL of your posts about this trainer guy were enlightening to say the least.

[roy_ricky09]

@spartan55 leave it my friend, she has blocked her mind and won't be able understand anything. Let her figure it out on her own.

[spartan55]

Everything is about her, it's unreal.