Am I faking my feelings for him?

[Anonymous]

There's this guy in school who I never notice I mean, I notice him but I don't NOTICE him. Like I never even thought anout him before and well this guy texted me and I realized that he was a really fun dude and I smile whenever we talk and stuff. So yeah we started texting or chatting everyday and we started hanginh out too. Then all of a sudden this guy tells me that he likes me and I told him I liked him too but not quite there yet to be in a relationship. I mean bruh I'm so confused I think I like him but I rarely feel the butterflies in your stomach thing does that mean that I'm faking it?

[Brereyes]

You aren't faking it. You guys click. You can like talking to someone, being around them, have good conversations, and good times hanging out but you can "like" anyone. Sometimes its not enough to actually invest in that person romantically, and thats okay cause thats what "friends" are. People you like, love, care about as a person. Don't force anything. Go with the flow. Get to know him a bit better. Don't focus on it too much. You're young, relationships are suppose to be easy and fun at that age. The butterfly feelings are so cheesy but honestly thats when you know you're really attracted to someone. That feeling is pretty significant, in my opinion. Don't stress, just enjoy eachothers company. Who knows, if things don't end up going that route he could end up being one of your really good friends :)

[Jαspεr]

Find out, without giving it away
Invite him to bring a group of boys to meet up with you and a group of your friends
Both will come to see the opposite sex, and as a result ull be popular with them all
He'll also notice how u asked him to bring them, so you consider him to have good taste and to be the most important boy there for you
Later on, you could peel off with him or be the last two around
Hope this helps! :)

[Asker]

Actually this is really helpful because coincidentally he invited me to come a party with him tonight

[Jαspεr]

I wish you the best of luck, at parties some guys feel like they don't know what to do, or can be tempted to drift towards their male friends
If u spend the whole night with him and have a gd time with him, ull make a serious impact
Good luck!

[GiveMeABreakPlz]

Spend more time. All I know is that girls 'fall for someone over time', doesn't happen much like that to guys. You might start developing even stronger feelings for him and before you know it, you like him 110%. Time will tell how your feelings develop, don't make anything official yet.

[manar]

you like him