What did I say that was wrong or bad? I want to understand why so many people came for me?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

[Bklynbadboy12]

They came for you cause it seems like from that exchange if he would've said yes you would've had sex with him

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

No I would not have. I did not offer him sex at all or offer him anything? Does it seem like I was?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Listen I know you wouldn't have. I know your a good woman but from that exchange it seems like it didn't happen cause he wasn't a willing participant it seems like if he was you would've been OK with it

[Bklynbadboy12]

I want you to read that and think about how it comes across to others like if he showed some guys that he could literally say she was down to do it if I wanted to.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Because I said “didn’t think you had that affect on me huh” and admitted I was attracted to him he would think I wanted to have sex? Because that’s how guys think? In person he’s started staring at me so god knows what he’s thinking

[Bklynbadboy12]

That's not just what guys think any woman that read that would think that you wanted him. It's almost like you said now you know how I feel the ball is in your court

[Bklynbadboy12]

Think about it if you was his girlfriend and a woman wrote that to him wouldn't you think she wanted him? Be honest

[Bklynbadboy12]

Like I said I know you're a good woman so I'm not attacking you I just want you to understand that perception is everything. So that in the future you know

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I should have just left it when he responded or said something like thanks for understanding instead of all the extra.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I would think she is testing the waters and is looking for him to be like dropping hints I’d be uncomfortable and wonder what he game is

[Bklynbadboy12]

Right and you express yourself and how you felt about him after you knew he had a pregnant girlfriend at that point there's no need to even express yourself cause you know we can't go any further so it looks like what you said you was testing the water to see if he was okay with it and if he was you would've said yes. That's why they were coming for you because when you found out he was taken you should've backed off not told him that you was crushing on him. That's where it looks bad you feel me

[spartan55]

I said the same thing dude.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Smart guy

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Do you think from a guys perspective he may think I’m trying to get him to be disloyal to his partner or tempt him or something

[spartan55]

Isn't that pretty much what @Bklynbadboy12 just said?

[Bklynbadboy12]

@Bekaaaaaaaahhhh I know that's what he's thinking he's also thinking that he can fuck you if he wants to. The reason he's thinking that is because you told him you liked him after you know he had a girlfriend and she was pregnant. Think about it why else would a girl tell you that cause she wants you but she won't force it she's waiting for you to make the first move

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

So that’s probably why he wants to be friends in case him and his girlfriend get in an argument or split up he has something convient to fuck and he believes I’ll do it cause why else admit to liking him knowing he’s unavailable? No wonder he checks me out now. I know for sure if I just leave him alone and do my own thing from now on focus on myself and it will be forgotten about and he will assume I moved on

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Now that I think of it if I had a boyfriend and say we where trying to have a baby and some guy tells me he has a crush on me I’d be like wtf what do you want me to do about that you know I’m starting a family? Obviously you have no respect I get it now !! I just made a mistake next time I can realise if the person is taken just keep my feelings to myself cause no good can come of it

[Bklynbadboy12]

See now you understand what I'm saying and that's why they came at you and just so you know that's exactly why he wants to be friends so when his convenient he can set up one of those friends with benefits situations and have sex with you but never give you a commitment

[Bklynbadboy12]

@Belaaaaaaaahhhh In box me we have to analyze this

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO

[TallAnon]

Flirting with a dude who's got a solid relationship (pregnant wife) is in poor taste.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I don’t think I was flirting? Is it because I said “didn’t think you had that affect on me huh haha” and admitted he’s attractive? And she’s not his wife

[spartan55]

@Bekaaaaaaaahhhh
You claimed yourself that you were flirting with the hip thrust text to him. Stop acting like your innocent.

[spartan55]

I'm sorry, did you just say she isn't his wife? So what does that mean? You are a piece of work.

[spartan55]

@roy_ricky09

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

@spartan55 back then I didn’t know he was not single that was very early on

[TallAnon]

If you don't acknowledge that text was you trying to be flirty, I'm not sure what to tell you.

[Neilbud]

Probably best just to move on. Otherwise you will over think the whole thing.

[Anonymous]

Why not just train with him and then shower together afterwards?

[roy_ricky09]

Are you serious now!!!

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I didn’t offer him sex or offer him ANYTHING I just told him how I liked himl

[roy_ricky09]

I'm speechless... Didn't you learn anything from your same previous post?