Sex or a relationship?

[Anonymous]

This guy sees a video of me basically playing around shaking my butt and he likes it. He gives me his number and I ask for his intentions. I also asked him was it because of my body he wanted to talk. He denies it and tells me he wanted to make a friend. Is it true?

[DaveJord]

Seriously, first off you make booty shaking videos so you are looking for that type of attention or at the very least you should expect to be getting guys attention. It does not sound like you are putting yourself out there as anything else other than a sex symbol. I don't maybe you have some real talent, and you are trying to capture that, but if you're looking sexy while doing it all the better right?

I am not going to say the guy is lying, I mean maybe he seriously does want a new friend, and the term Freind can have some type of loose meaning in this context. But obviously he was draw to the video because you look good, or because he appreciates the talent you have, and after that maybe he saw some hidden quality in you that makes him think you would be a cool person to hang out with. But that doesn't mean he would not be willing to fuck, and if a true and meaningful friendship and relationship comes from it then all the better.

But he probably is not lying to you, but he is not being 100% honest either... but no true gentlemen would be like, "Yeah I saw that ass and I want to hit it."

[Reece12345]

This guy would hang out with you a lot and get to know you before he talks about real friendship.

What does this guy like about you that he says he wants to be friends?

Maybe ask him why he wants to be friends with you. Ask him what he likes about you and why does he want to be your friend.

Ask for specific details on things that make you special. Tell him that your body / beauty / your ass do not count as reasons. Real specific reason about you in particular (oh, you're good to talk to, you're beautiful etc shouldn't qualify, because he can say to anyone he just wants to fuck / jerk off to).

Maybe say that before this goes any further you want hang out with him a lot and see what he says. No more ass until he gives you the time of day.

[Reece12345]

thanks for the MHO

[FilmGuy93]

He doesn't know... He can't know what he wants from/with you yet... He doesn't know you. You start as friends, because that's how you get to know someone. Maybe you have sex one day, maybe you don't. Maybe after that sex, you become true lovers, maybe you don't.

[BobSansMal]

Those things are not mutually exclusive. He might have approached you because of your body, but also wants to see if you could be a friend.
But, ummm, trust your instincts.

[20yearsolder]

If the only reason he contacted you was because of the video. It's sex related

[Kryzo]

Probably not. Especially since he saw the video of you shaking your ass. It is 90% to do you.

[OddBeMe]

Not gonna say he’s truthful…but we are attracted initially by lust and stay for the convo’s.

[Anonymous]

So you acted like a whore and got what you wanted now you come on here whining about it 🙄

[LazerBean]

Sex, obviously.

[Anonymous]

Sex lol

[Opinion Owner]

Don't be that dumb