I know men don't like being pressure to start a family but lets say we don't mention it, would some men want kids too and even proceed to it themselves? Can they also feel the urge for a child even if a woman were to not even say anything about it?
Do some men naturally want kids (a family) without the woman mentioning the topic first?
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Would starting a family come natural from the man himself if we don't remind him nor nag him about it?
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Or does it always have to be the woman's idea, always the woman setting up the timeframe, always the woman mentioning the topic first?
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Plenty of men do want kids, but only with a good woman that they are likely to be happy with long term. I have known that I wanted kids and to raise a family since I was in high school. Guys wanting healthy kids is one of the main reasons why many high quality guys don't want to start a NEW relationship with a woman past 30 too.
Thank you for your view. Did you find the right woman?
No. I live in a very liberal state where the majority of women used drugs, drink alcohol often, and the majority of them are promiscuous too.
I'd only be with someone that is high quality and has good morals. I think it will be much easier to find a good partner if I move to another more conservative state though.
True. Hopefully you find her soon. I think she must be out there somewhere. I think one is her late 20's to early 30's would be ok for you. The 20-24 year-olds are likely in college and many of them don't really want kids yet. Some of us start wanting a family in our mid-late 20's.
Reminding someone about it probably isn't going to make someone suddenly want kids or suddenly not want kids. Lots of both men and women have strong urges to have kids. And lots don't. Some actively don't want kids and no amount of persuasion is going to help. I will say that trying to convince someone who isn't interested in having kids to have them is courting disaster. It's a huge decision with massive consequences for your life and you can't take it back.
If a guy wants kids yes. You wouldn’t have and a guy pressuring you into something you’re not ready for though.