I posted a picture of me touching a mal naked waiter ass on facebook and my boyfriend is angry at me. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

It was for my birthday party. My friends hired a naked waiter for a couple of hours so we flirt with him and posted a photos on Facebook. My boyfriend is mad at me for touching another man before asking him about. He is also saying that posting the photos is humilating for him. He went back to his place fuming.

It feels he is just too insecure and just feel hurt in his manhood. How to make him understand that his is making a mountain of nothing? No one was mocking him in the comments of the photos.

[Anonymous]

"It feels he is just too insecure and just feel hurt in his manhood"

This is the problem with feeling rather than thinking. Feelings are rarely clear and almost always biased. You feel this way because you don't want to admit you did anything wrong.

But what would you think if the roles were reversed and it was him posting pics of him grabbing a naked waitress's ass? Or what would you think if your brother's wife had posted them? What was the point of you posting them?

[SnowedIn]

You can't (and shouldn't) tell him how to feel. Its how he feels. Maybe he's overreacting -- that's a valid opinion for you to have. But you cannot and should not force him to accept your opinion.

Here's the thing: I bet if he was at a party with a naked woman serving beers, you wouldn't want him touching her.

[blackgaletiger]

I can understand that he may feel uncomfortable and assumes he will be mocked. Being on FB is what I think caused him to feel insecure. If were to be a privet group I could see nothing wrong with it but it was all in good fun so i see it not being so bad but then again I can't speak for him

[Guy13]

Pray that he does not break-up with you. I think you know this already.

[Jhunitor]

Why do girls think it is okay to touch other men while they have a boyfriend? I hope he leaves your ass

[Md_salmanji007]

Delete it and ask sorry to him... if he touch other girl's.. a** is it ok for you

[spartan55]

Wow, that was pretty stupid on your part.