My boyfriend is upset at me because I won't send him nudes with my face. Am I at fault?

[Anonymous]

He is always busy, barely talks and make time for me anymore but now he is asking me to send a nude pic with my face. I've sent him nudes before but not with my face.
We're in a ldr now because he's away for a few months working. I love him and he said he loves me too, but now he's questioning my love because I won't send him nudes showing my face. He is mad now and said I don't trust him.

[God_of_Thunder]

If you've already told him "no", then he has no right to be upset.

You don't want to do it, that's that. Just because he's your boyfriend, you don't owe him that. You've done nothing wrong.

If he can't accept that you don't want to do it; that's his problem, not yours. He should respect your decision, and stop asking. Period.

[RationalMale]

1. You might try showing you care another way.
2. Point out to him that it's now about trusting him. The Fappening/Celebgate happened because of hackers, not vengeful ex boyfriends. If your phone or his got messed with your pics could end up hurting your career or reputation.

[RationalMale]

*not about trusting him.

[writing_essays]

I think he wants to show those nudes to others - why is it so important to him that your face is on them? Is he worried you aren't using your own body to send those nudes?

[lovydoey]

No u have every right to decline him that. Is ur body and u have the right to say and do what's comfortable with urself.

[2100Pink]

I would not do that either. If he can't accept it he's a shitty boyfriend and you should find a guy that's more mature

[Izumiblu]

No, you are right. You tell him "no way in hell" nd dont let him guilt you into it.

[goldfinch23]

This has nothing to do with your love. It means you are sane. I would never ask any girl for nudes with her face. One day he can take advantage and your pics end up somewhere on the Internet among millions of other girls. If he will keep asking for nudes with your face, don't hesitate to dump him.

[Shaft50]

Let him throw his tantrum, because he's not getting what he wants... he'll get over it

[DWreck]

Don't ever send nudes over the cell phone, internet, etc., unless you don't mind them being shown to unintentional recipients. You think it's safe, but it's not.

[Anonymous]

NOOOO! if he's mad than he doesn't deserve you he should respect your choices

[pooper89]

He's being a complete asshole. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with. He's trying to guilt trip you.

[ProbablyTooMature]

He sounds like an asshole. He should be fucking happy he gets anything instead of trying to make you feel bad for sending him something.

[TadCurious]

Stick to your policy on this. No face in any nudes. He's being a jerk.

[Sametheon]

He's certainly in the wrong, though I think the real issue is that he isn't sure if they're even your nudes.

[That1tallguy]

He probably wants to show some one your pick that's why he wants your face in it for prof

[dragonslayer1516]

Why does he want them with your face, what's wrong with normal nudes

[Anonymous]

Just tell him if he loves you he won't push as a relationship is about compromise and shouldn't be forcing into things

[ILoveBeerNWhiskey]

Only send with your face if you really trust him. No doubt. Otherwise, get ready for your nudes to potentially become exposed. Imagine if your family saw it? Think about it.

[Anonymous]

he's up to something if he wants ur face in the pics ;)

[CheerGirl38139]

Errmmmm. Yeah. Never do that. Never.

[Anonymous]

You're not at fault. It's your body, cherish it. Don't let others take advantage of you. If all he's looking for is nudes, then go find someone else- he simply doesn't value and respect your self-respect.

[Anonymous]

Can't blame you, never know where they'll end up

[EdirneCigeri]

you're right to not trusting him

[douride2]

Tell him to shove off.

[Chris_68]

never send nude pictures with your face!

[Anonymous]

People get triggered by the stupidest things

[Intraluminal]

You're smart.

[Anonymous]

Just send him a nude picture. What's the big deal?

[douride2]

Nice comment coming from someone posting anon.

[AtomicCheesing]

You are not at fault