Why can’t men tell us he’s done?

[tootles303]

Why can’t men tell us women he’s done when things are over? It’s hurts but I’d rather be told to move on and it done, instead of questioning whether it is or not?

[Summeroflove]

Some men are more straightforward then others. The same goes for women too.

Im the same way. I would rather be told when someone is done and it’s over with as well. Even if the truth hurts. It’s better to know then not know and find out later on and it’s worse.

Some men are just scared, others just keep stringing someone along because they don’t know if they’ll find someone else and it’s better then being lonely, and the list is really endless

[Anonymous]

But are

you sure it’s done? I mean ok if he cheated to you you may think that means he’s over me when he really isn’t. At what point do you know he’s actually done w you w out him actually saying it? Sometimes he may not even realize you’re both done. Or he’s trying to have his cake and eat it too as they say.

[FilmGuy93]

As surprising as this may be; a lot of times we don't even know if things are over, ourselves.

[teamvic]

Hmmm maybe because he could keep fuckin until he does find another and if he does and still talks to you then, two is always better than one when it comes to pussy

[JDtheman19]

For me depending on how long it's been it's hard to let go and accept that it's over some people are stubborn and dont want to accept defeat that it didn't work out

[TheSpaceGnome]

If he hadn't told you, he's likely also questioning it.

[spartan55]

He wants to keep it warm for later.

[noohair]

He does not want to burn bridges.