Does he likes me or does he likes the situation?

[Anonymous]

I fell in love with a compromised guy. We became very close - in a best friend thing level. Somehow there was no boundaries and some stuff happened. We go out sometimes and people had mistaken us as a couple and he didn't seem bothered by that. He's loving, caring, he makes me laugh, he fights me when i don't wanna eat or miss a doctor appointment - i mean, everything that we should have in a relationship exists with us. Still I'm not the girlfriend.

I tried to stop several times, even tho I'm the one in love, he says he likes me and act like it and i let it happen cus of the way I feel but the main feeling now is that i am a horrible person, just cus i always let him drag me back to his arms.

I just don't understand why does he have the need to keep chasing me and not letting me go if he has someone and I'm the lonely one. Why can't he be satisfied by what he has and, if he's not satisfied, why doesn't he leave her?

[kylee2437]

So basically your issue is you allowed a relationship to form without asking him if he truly wanted one. Whenever you introduce yourself to a man you should ask him what he wants. Because you failed to do that, you are showing up for him without an expectation of becoming a couple. Unfortunately because you allowed him to get comfortable this situation isn’t going to work out in your favor

[spartan55]

Lol... a new way to spin cheating...'compromised'... so gross.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

He totally wants to have babies with you…

[Guy13]

Nice set-up.

[In_Trance]

The situation