Do you think guys give up on dating too soon?

[Anonymous]

[ballweevil]

Because girls can choose who they will date, males needs to be perfect so they can be chosen, so after decent amount of time, guys just can be asked to do anything they can so they can be chose. So they just stop caring, and just enjoy life by themselves

[Anonymous]

What is “too soon”? It’s not uncommon for men to be virgins into their 30’s. If you aren’t very attractive and you don’t make it into the top percentages of earners. It doesn’t take very long for men to realize life is easier and more enjoyable when you just focus on your own happiness. It will suck when we get older and die alone. But when everyone around you is getting divorced and ending up in the same position, what’s the difference?


Society ruined it for everyone.

[Agape93]

Yeap. They're so used to relatively easy, quick gratification, that they give up when things don't go their way.

[Anemone978]

I don't know I think we all do.. Like I'm personally done trying to date and I only had 2 boyfriends LOL

[tzdc21]

It's easy to see why because there's not a lot of women out there who are relationship material. Not trying to be offensive or anything here, but it's the truth. That's why a lot of guys either give up on dating all together, or fly outside the country to find a relationship.

[JamesDiaz11]

I don't know if that is a specifically guy related issue, giving up too easily. I think people generally give up too easily in relationships, but then again they usually enter them for very fickle reasons, so the foundations are weak already.

[Anonymous]

How do you mean? I gave it 20 years. I don't think guys give up too soon. I think women need to realize how little incentive there is for men to do it anymore. A majority (not all) women will sleep with him without him dating anymore. Women wanted equality, they fought and got it for the most part. Now they're unhappy that they learn true equality comes with downsides as well.

[Joani]

Yes, if we have consistent reasons to do so. Social dating sites and sky high beauty standards prove that only the genetically gifted ones are within the dating pool, so for many guys to lose interest in the matter should come as no surprise. That doesn't mean giving up on dating means resigning to a meaningful life by doing what you enjoy doing, like seeing the world, enjoying tasty food, and care for those you cherish :)

[Summeroflove]

Some do yes unfortunately and guys who want to date. But sometimes finding the right person is hard.


But I will say. Someone who doesn’t accept you. Move on.

[LiamJHayden]

Some do. "She said 'No.' She's the second girl to reject me. I guess I'll be single forever." Girls sometimes do similar. "He is the second guy to break my heart. I guess they all suck."

[Anonymous]

No, i think both men and women dont take it seriously enough to start with.

The young think they are invincible and that everything will just happen for them but sadly this is not true.

[Ryfyle]

Kid, you have yet to see the insane shit that's going on outside. your going to have to get aggressive or watch your dating pool straight up die right out of high school.

[Anonymous]

I gave it a few years

One was unintendedly successful and the other 2 were empty voids so I quit with a moderate batting average and went back to my plough

[Anonymous]

No, it depends on the guy. In my experience, they were pragmatic.

[TheFlak38]

no rational man wastes his time on pointless dates.

[KathrynTaylor]

Only if they’re not into you.

[SnowedIn]

Yes. Assuming they even start.

[grega239]

Why wouldn't they? Its a waste of time tbh

[tonamimargaux]

Yeah they do