Today I went to a coffee shop I always go and there is a waiter who always looks at me and says bye beautiful and when I made an order?

[CoolCatMar1]

And had to lay for it the girl who works there said it was already paid by a guy. And that guy was looking at me who is a waiter... Why would he do that? I felt flattered of course.

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Pay for it**

[AmeerX]

Obviously he likes you but tell him you are not interested. You have a boyfriend right. So don't let his infatuation grow

[CoolCatMar1]

Of course not

[AmeerX]

Thanks for MHO.
Happy New Year 🥳🎉

[CoolCatMar1]

Happy new year!!!

[Charliefretz329]

You’re beautiful!!!

[CoolCatMar1]

Hehe

[Charliefretz329]

🥰🥰🥰

[Red-Blaze]

Maybe his trying to start with you, or maybe he just likes to do actions like that to girls he likes
I will recommend to try to get a talk in with him to find out nicely so in case his trying to start with you, he will know early enugth that your currently taken, so it can be nicely and friendly before they may try something big thats not going to work out
Or find out his just likes to do it for some pepole without trying to start anything and then guess its all good

But I will saying being open and just asking in a friendly matter is likely a good path to take

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Sounds like it is time to traid up. Your boyfriend isn't giving you the attention or respect you deserve and this guy is.

[CoolCatMar1]

Maybe... But i love my boyfriend...

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Fair. But you can’t leave yourself stuck in a heartless relationship. He doesn’t take you places unless it’s with your friends and he doesn’t buy or spend any money unless it is for him with friends…. He is intentionally withholding from you. He has already started holding back. It’s better for you both if you rip off the bandaid sooner.

[CoolCatMar1]

He isn't exactly heartless... He is good just changed a bit... I hope it's just temporary though because he was very good in the start

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Sweetie you know it won’t be. His mom hates you and he is a mommas boy. Who knows why she hates you… but if she hates you then you two won’t last.

[CoolCatMar1]

She said she is ready to talk to me and she said what makes her blood boil is that i rejected food and because I did not made up his bed and left my clothes... Even though that's not entirely true.. all my clothes were put in bags

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Well that is good! But girls are often more ready to resolve issues than guys are. He seems like he is in his own world. And you are just there as his trophy girl. Do you want to be a trophy or a girlfriend?

[CoolCatMar1]

Well

I don't know i want to give him a chance. Especially since he reached out and wanted to give this relationship a second chance

[Wish4UrB00ty]

I mean good on you!! That is very noble! But how long ago was that?

[CoolCatMar1]

Three days ago and are good together now

[bean2k21]

When you say he "changed," what that means is he showed you his good side to get with you, then his true self came out. This is what I've been preaching about. You cannot reward people for bad behaviors like being fake. You have to set the rules, expectations, and punishments up front. Now, you have a new Lord and Master, who is giving you a gift of the authentic self and you should worship him.

[CoolCatMar1]

@bean2k21 my boyfriend actually is going through hard times right now... Even his friends said he is that type of guy. He is a home guy. After he gets better he will become the same guy i used to know.

[20yearsolder]

Why would he do that? Because he's attracted to you.

[CoolCatMar1]

Yeah...

[Berethor]

He knows that you have a boyfriend? likely no.

[CoolCatMar1]

No he doesn't

[Berethor]

And that's why you got a free coffee. :)

[CoolCatMar1]

Hehehehhe interesting.. so it was an attempt to flirt or?

[Berethor]

Obviously, I don't think that he done that out of altruism. :)

[CoolCatMar1]

Yes i get it

[Guy13]

Because you are super hot both in personality and physical features 🙄. Please now 😎

[CoolCatMar1]

Hahhaha i have a boyfriend I can not go out with him even though I can't lie he has very nice eyes he seems like a better guy than my boyfriend ngl

[CoolCatMar1]

But my boyfriend is more attractive in the sense he has a better body and hair and stuff

[Guy13]

Yeah right, I see how you are picking up every Harry, Dick, and Tom. 😎

[CoolCatMar1]

What?

[Guy13]

Teasing. Never mind. Catch-up later.

[CoolCatMar1]

Hahhaha

[Rockstarrrrr]

He's flirting obviously... And seems like he's charming too... You're still thinking about him 🤭🤫

[CoolCatMar1]

Well I was thinking because he has super friendly and beautiful eyes

[CoolCatMar1]

And his gesture was cute

[Rockstarrrrr]

I get it... I'm still thinking about this cute girl I've met a few days ago lol... On a side note your boyfriend needs to step up his game lol

[CoolCatMar1]

Hahahhaha you mean become more flirtatious and romantic?

[Rockstarrrrr]

Yeah lol... As you can see, there's a lot of guys out there who can make a girl blush

[CoolCatMar1]

Yes but my boyfriend is also good just... He used to be better ngl

[Rockstarrrrr]

Uh oh...

[CoolCatMar1]

I mean now he doesn't take me to places we used to go and says it's because he has mental breakdown but he still some how manages to go out with friends...

[CoolCatMar1]

But he takes me with friends everywhere but he doesn't really talk to me there because he talks to friends

[Rockstarrrrr]

That's not good tbh...

[CoolCatMar1]

I know but i hope it willl change

[Rockstarrrrr]

Well you said he's having like a mental breakdown... So he tries to escape everything for a while to get some fresh air... So he goes to his friends.. Friends are easy going and not a task... He kinda ignores you because you're the girlfriend.. You're part of the tasks... he might be feeling like he doesn't take good care of you like before...

[CoolCatMar1]

You think this is part of his mental breakdown?

[Rockstarrrrr]

Seems like it yes but who knows..

[CoolCatMar1]

Yeah...

[bean2k21]

Clearly he is a fool who does not understand that you are converting to Bean2k21sm and need to learn discipline and obedience. Rewarding you for no reason will only lead you to believe in a false sense of yourself. Tell him to stop this foolish behavior. And then punish yourself for accepting rewards from him.

[DavidRaul]

You already know the answer to it. He finds you attractive

[CoolCatMar1]

Yes but i didn't expect him to pay for my drink especially since he works there!!! Was it ok of him?

[DavidRaul]

Yeah it was a one time thing, it was fine. This is where you draw a line and make him aware that you already have a boyfriend, not accepting further treats.

[Summeroflove]

I’m not sure. Maybe to be nice or maybe because he’s into you. I can’t really read minds. But I would just feel flattered.

Myabe pay it forwards someday and pay for someone else’s thing

[CoolCatMar1]

He stares at me all the time. And smiles at me

[Summeroflove]

Interesting

[Summeroflove]

Well if you’re in a relationship I wouldn’t pursue it

[CoolCatMar1]

I am not trying to

[Alex8736]

it's that beautiful smile of yours Ms popularity ❤️❤️

[CoolCatMar1]

Awwww why popularity?🥺

[Alex8736]

just so loveable ❤️❤️

[CoolCatMar1]

Awww🥰

[Alex8736]

you rock baby girl 😘😇🥰

[CoolCatMar1]

Hehehhe

[Alex8736]

pick out your new years eve outfit yet?

[bowenw]

He likes you and is hoping to get to know you.

[spartan55]

Are you certain he paid for it? Just because he looked at you doesn't mean he did.

[CoolCatMar1]

He actually said he did

[CubaPirate]

I obviously wants to give more than just a coffee ☕

[Andres77]

Trying to get his foot in the door

[CoolCatMar1]

Yessss he also was standing and staring at me a lot when this happened then said bye beautiful and he said he paid it

[Kelly6]

simple , he's into you

[ChiTown33]

To get a bigger tip if he's smart..

[_Troian_]

He trying to be a girfriend stealer.

[_Troian_]

U should make ur boyfriend and him fight for you then date with whoever wins