Why are guys not good at handling rejections back?

[tonamimargaux]

This high-body count guy blocked me everywhere lmao he ghosted me 3 years ago and came back alive wanting to hook up with me. When he ghosted me for a long time & came back I was always a friend to him. But now that I turned him down he 🚫 me everywhere. 😂😆🤦🏻‍♀️ are you guys all the same? How many of you can see yourself doing this? Be honest.

[God_of_Thunder]

I will never understand guys like that.

Sure, rejection hurts, but holy hell; it's certainly not the end of the world. If a person can't handle being turned down, the what in the hell makes them think they can handle a relationship? Even if it's just a casual, sexual relationship, they're probably still going to be a time when she's not in the mood. Are they going to piss and moan when that happens?

Heaven forbid they get turned down for an actual relationship. Getting all bent of of shape over the rejection just proves how smart the woman was for rejecting them in the first place. Who the heck would want to date someone like that?

I don't know what happened to cause someone to be like that. Maybe they got too many participation trophies as a kid, and never learned how to lose gracefully, but holy shit; grow a pair, be an adult, and move on. Nobody is entitled to a relationship, and acting like a child for getting rejected is never going to get you anywhere.

Sorry, that kind of turned into a little mini-rant, but I just can't stand people that overreact to getting rejected. It's just so pathetic.

Anyway, to answer your question: not all of us are like that, no.

[tonamimargaux]

Agree. If you can’t handle rejection don’t act too cocky when I am still being nice to you right? I knew he was of no good anyway I dodged a bullet there.

[God_of_Thunder]

Yeah, you definitely did, for sure!

[Summeroflove]

They feel entitled to sex. This is why many people once they get blocked. They block back. So that someone can’t pop back on later

[tonamimargaux]

I feel like blocking him is so unnecessary because his existence anyway didn’t matter to me at all. I was only being an acquaintance so far

[Summeroflove]

Then tell him how he makes you feel tell him to never contact you again and block.

[Summeroflove]

That or just block. Hell he did the same thing to you

[tonamimargaux]

He doesn’t make me feel anything. I don’t care at all

[Summeroflove]

Just block him then

[tonamimargaux]

Mm taking your advice

[Summeroflove]

Hopefully he leaves you alone

[tonamimargaux]

I know how to handle if he doesn’t no worries 😉

[Summeroflove]

Good have a great day

[tonamimargaux]

You too.

[FilmGuy93]

Sounds like you're dealing with someone who isn't very emotionally healthy

[tonamimargaux]

I didn’t even deal with him he was just a guy I met on tinder 3 years ago. Yeah you’re right emotionally unhealthy

[Anonymous]

It's not guys, people with higher body counts who didn't have many rejections handle it worse. Here it's a guy. Ever rejected a girl? they creat a lot of drama and tell bad about you in social circles without even knowing you.

[tonamimargaux]

Agree.

[lightbulb27]

if chatting with unstable needy guys, expect some unstable and desperate behavior!

social media and messaging is a communications mess

[serious]

I think it would depend on the guy and how much ego/prestige he has. If he is very rational guy then he will easily take rejections.

However, if he is a man driven by ego, pride, prestige then of course his behavior won't be ideal.

[Andres77]

Not all guys are like that. But enough guys are that the rest of us are having to clean up their messes.

[Paul09]

Nope not "all" guys are the same, exactly how not "all" girls are the same. From your 1 experience. And you made it your problem. Just forget about him.

[jshm2]

This seems more of a you problem, then his problem.

[tonamimargaux]

Why am I the problem here lol

[LegendaryDater]

Lack of self esteem. Lack of self worth would be my guess.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I don’t hook up with people.

[tonamimargaux]

Nice.