I dated a cop, we ended up reconnecting recently due to a tragedy. He asked me why I stopped talking to him to which I explained he had me blocked so… he said his ex blocked everyone from his phone apparently because he was back with her. But I was also back with my ex, to which I corrected that I was NOT. Not sure where he gathered that from. Anyways, I showed him how he had me blocked to which he responded that wasn’t his actual phone it was the second number I had. The other number was his cop phone. He texted me that night and we were back in communications. I texted him a couple times trying to see him, as friends, to which he would respond he was busy. He answered another call at my home to where we had a small debate and I asked for another officer, he still showed up. After the report was done, I said some smart as remarks at him to which he laughed off like usual. I tend to be very spicy. Anyways, I thanked him for coming and to have a good night since he was so busy. He then said he wasn’t anymore and he stayed, ate, and talked to me for a bit. We flirted, spoked about some things, he even answered a call he probably should of went to but ended up taking care of there with me. He asked me personal things, and told me personal things, along the lines like he did want me. He had an understanding or agreement with the person he was talking to now, which I then asked well “are you with your ex or who are you with?” After all was said and done he said he was just there “doing his job & nothing more” he asked me more personal things, and then we hugged and he said “if it doesn’t work out with the person im talking to I’ll call you” to which I said “it’ll work out, I just want to be friends” today k texted him that he had been on my mind, and I hope he has a great day since it’s been a month since the tragedy in my life occurred and he was the lead investigator he came to mind. Did I overstep? He texted me “your a really nice person, but, im seeing someone now”
Did I overstep by letting someone know I had been thinking about them?
