A guy slept with me 2 times, took my virginity the was promising me things kept talking for a month. Now he said he left me cause I was ugly? why?

[Deimy]

[stoicity]

I'm so sorry about this, you must have been gone through so much. But here's a thing, don't give consent like flyers because of some promises made initially. Evaluate the situation and be sane when things go haywire i think there should be a disclaimer before every consent that the other person would either ghost and run away. If you make up your mind early the situation would likely to render less damage. Also, if the reasoning for him leaving you because you were ugly came from him then there's nothing you can do about it, in this case just move on he landed a great deal of damage on your self-esteem and the thing that you can do is to work on yourself do things that you like and be fearless and limitless. If it was you assumption that you were ugly and he left you then some serious work has to be done.
Cheer up there's a lot to life than this stupid dude.

[dynamicyandere]

He’s a manipulative asshole that took advantage of your trust. I know a friend who had the same thing happen to them. Some men (and women) will tell you whatever you want to hear, so they can take advantage of you.


Life can be cruel. But it’s still important to find people you can trust. Just make sure they truly earn your trust and don’t trust too freely, otherwise you’ll end up hurt.

[HateyouxD]

You are no where near ugly. Because if that's the case he wouldn't of busted all types of nuts.
he's unfortunately a user. Block his ass. I'm sorry this happened to you

[LazerBean]

Because he got the only thing he wanted from you and now no longer has a use for you.

[LiamSawyer]

The guy obviously was a loser and took advantage of you, it really doesn't matter if this jerk says you were ugly because now that he got what he wanted from you he'd say anything to get rid of you because he's such a lover. You're probably quite attractive which is what made him want you in the first place.

[KnewHOUSE]

He just wanted to be one to say he was with a virgin
Most guys get points games from there buddies when we get to go to bed with a virgin us guys call
Newbe with sex.
I'm older now I know what it really means to be a virgin again on a spiritual level.
The guy was being real mean that all don't ever talk to them again his may want to sleep with you now his buddy had you.

[AydenHazor]

He unfortunately got what he wanted from you by getting to sleep with you so he got out so he didn't have to follow through with his commitments. It's a total jerk move

[Apple_Cider]

I got a thing in the mail that said I won one of five prizes. But in order to collect, I needed to send them $30.00, and send them a picture of my pet. The best prize was a car, and the worst was a ballpoint pen. I chose to keep my money.

[MrCommodore]

Sounds like he was a player type, smooth talking, maybe taking a girls virginity is an ego boost for him.

[Deimy]

Do you think he really thought I was ugly

[MrCommodore]

I don't know, I can't see him wanting to have sex with you if he didn't think you were attractive, unless he liked your body or something. But that seems a bit shallow

[SnowedIn]

He probably doesn't think you're ugly but he's using that as a terrible excuse. He wanted sex with you, got it, and now he's done.

[NotTacocaT6969]

He used you for sex.


Happens to most virgins.

[Soulfist]

Please don't feel bad about it. People made promises to me too. More than I can remember. They kept none.

[Dav1dTh0ma3]

Sounds like he was being an a hole, after he got what he "wanted"

[jjj101010]

Coz he wanted to get laid and told u want u wanted to hear

[weysally]

he fucked you that is why,

[Deimy]

Do you think he really thinks I am ugly

[weysally]

no but a lot of lads wants a way out

[Iron_Man]

Never give it up

[Deimy]

what

[Iron_Man]

Never do that until you’re married. Look what happens.

[Stevefiveo]

He's an asshole.

[panamared1]

What a jerk