A guy got mad at me because I dressed "provocative" for the gym but use a hat to hide my face. Does that even make sense? What was he trying to say?

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[virtue2332]

Guys we have to be better than some of the shit you guys are writing. What a women wears doesn't give us a right to abuse them with negative nonsense. Anyone that has had a lot of experience will tell you how a woman dresses is not an indicator of thier willingness to sleep with you. Women that you would consider to be dressed in a consertive way can be just as sexually motivated. When some dipshit goes out of his way to call a girl a whore or feel the need to go out of thier way to bully some girl online is clearly not getting women and acting out of anger and insecurities. I understand if its not your thing we all entitled to our preferances but to pretend that you have a high moral standard to how women act that makes you go out of your way to attempt to chop down or make feel bad is evidence that you are acting out of frustration that you are not capable of getting a girl that fits the criteria you describe so you try to control women by making them feel bad or guilty. You make men look bad. Who cares she likes the way she looks in an outfit at the gym. If she wants your attention she is more than capable of getting it so stop going out of your way to police these things that don't involve you. That same dipshit that does shit like that is the one with his shirt off flexing in the mirror. If you go to a tree that has fruit of all different shapes you pick the ones that catch your eye and are attracted to and you go on with your day leave the other fruit for someone else. Don't be an asshole and get mad if you don't find the perfect one so you decide to destroy and damage them all because you will realize as your hunger builds that maybee you judged too harshly and realize that some of that fruit wasn't as bad as you may have thought now you go back and they're all fucked up because you were an asshole about it

[NachtjaegerSS]

Simp spotted.

[lbigtonyl]

@NachtjaegerSS his username says it all. He's the type of dude to tell a woman she's his soulmate on the first date lol

[bigrook]

Was that what you were wearing when the guy got mad? If so, he was probably having some other unrelated problems and you happened to be in his crosshairs and fell victim to his mini-rant. I say this because 1) I've never seen any heterosexual male give a woman grief over how she's dressed at the gym, 2) most homosexual males are too busy doing their own thing or too busy working out with other guys or staring at other guys to go out of their way to give any woman grief over their attire, and 3) what you're wearing in the pic would be considered conservative by modern day gym standards - much more "provocative" outfits at the gym these days.

[SphynxUK]

Oh well, better wear a puffer jacket and jogging bottoms next time…🙄
Jesus, what’s wrong with people? How dare he make a comment about what you’re wearing?

[Sour-rose]

... Huh? Wtf does that even me-

[Gen_Z_Rando]

He's a creep, 9/10 times these guys have no actual personality and just find themselves hating women or objectifying them.

Solution: stay far away from him or find another time to go the gym, these guys genuinely suck to just be around, so good luck

[bigrook]

I don't know about your recommendation. That disgruntled dude is the one with the issue. I agree about your assessment that he's probably a closet perv and just plain creepy, but why should the asker have to change her routine on his account? In fact she should bring the incidence to the attention of a staff member at the gym.

The only possible problem is if this gym were part of a convent where the nuns of the convent are working out. Maybe then the asker's attire is questionable (possibly because who knows how a nun might actually dress at a gym these days). But barring that, this issue is totally the guy's issue. Just like girls shouldn't harass guys (I'm referring to tik-tok narcissists), guys shouldn't harass girls at the gym.

[Gen_Z_Rando]

@bigrook Usually because staff at gyms rarely respect women as much working out and it might be easier to just avoid that hassle. Otherwise yeah, agreed, the dude is in the wrong and should be called out for it

[bigrook]

I can see what you're saying about the gym staff. See this sort of incidence is a clear case of guys acting inappropriately as opposed to the situation where guys just occasionally giving women glances and being call out for that. But I digress.

[lbigtonyl]

Based on what you described (instead of quote exactly what he said) it sounds like he thinks you have a nice body but are hiding your face because it's possibly unattractive.

- Sort of like a bald guy wearing a hat to cover up the fact that he's bald

This could be completely wrong but it's hard to say when all there is to go on is you saying he got mad

[lightbulb27]

if that's what you wear, it's normal attire. Girls dress like that, whether they are in good shape or not.

I have no idea... could it be you should be wearing a burqua and hajib? Or is he Omish and wants to see you in only black and white. I'd suggest trying that as a joke.

he's going to have to get over his insecurities and focus on how to make you fulfilled rather than stopping guys eyes from seeing you.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'm slow to come to your defense. Why pictures and videos when it is honestly not instructional content and just thirst trap stuff? I can't defend that... I am disarmed in even trying to justify anything because it was meant to and catered to getting attention from the start. Sorry... not sorry though.

[Lionman95]

It´s not like wearing a hat makes any difference from a guy´s point of view. I can understand what he´s saying since you seem to wear a sports bra and a leggings that emphasizes your body forms so to say.
I don´t know if I called it provocative but I would say those clothes are made to get you the attention of guys.

[Wade12345]

You're pretty damn hot. I don't know why guys get mad at women for showing off how God made them so beautiful. Plus you obviously work at it and take good care of yourself. The guy is just being immature and an idiot.

[Tyrael]

He was probably mad because you were standing around taking selfies, hogging machines, not actually working out and he was just looking for a way to vent that frustration.

[Pyrofox]

The way women dress if its remotely sexual in public often attracts the wrong types of guys. Use some logic and realize that dressing sexy just attracts the creeps X3

[Agape93]

Soo... you wore gym clothes and didn't wear a sweat suit like a bum

he's just a dick, ignore him

[Anonymous]

Maybe you’re a butterface lol I don't know I’ve never seen a man get mad about what a woman was wearing. You are wearing comfortable gym apparel he must have just been having a bad day but wtf.

[bowenw]

It make zero sense. He may have been trying to say why hide your face if you are trying to make guys look at you.

[serious]

I don't see anything wrong with your gym outfit and hat does not cover your face, you are covering your face with your cell phone.

[Cassie88]

Hats don't cover the face though; they cover the head. Is the guy a complete idiot?

[spartan55]

Who is 'a guy' and why would you care what he thinks?

[weysally]

love no matter what we wear, some will saying its either this or that, you have a great figure, use it to your advantage not theirs

[DavidRaul]

Seems like an asshole. If this attire is provocative, he should get an eye check up , maybe he should get his psych evaluation. Its the perfect attite for a workout

[MaryLeee]

For equipment (including usual clothing), my personal opinion is that quality is the priority. No matter how beautiful the clothes are, they will be decolorized, hair-shedded, breast-pressed, and crotch-stretched. It's not a good product,

[OddBeMe]

Who’s the guy? Your guy? A rando at the gym?

I totally get covering your face for sexy pics. Feeling good about yourself? Take a pic and upload it anonymously. There’s no issue. Maybe this guy disagreed. But that’s his problem.

[TonyV]

Eeh I've seen way worse at the gym, for from provocative

[JustinTheGreat]

you’re literally just wearing normal work out clothes so I don't know what that guy is talking about lol