I can't tell what he wants?

[Anonymous]

This guy acts like we are together then we are just friends the next. He does it mostly after we have sex. He calls me names like cousin and sister even after we has sex. He constantly jokes about having a girlfriend and jokes about me having a boyfriend almost everyday. I told him if he has a girlfriend i will stop talking to him completely but he gets mad at me for not taking a joke. At one point i got mad at him and felt like he was talking to other women and he denied it and felt like i was gaslighting him. im really confused on what he wants and when i do ask him he flips it on me and tells me he wants whatever i want. I told him i wanted a relationship but he hasn't yet agreed or said anything about that.

[Anonymous]

You are not the one meaning this “ relationship “ “booty call” won’t be long term or your future husband..
you can either enjoy your time with him and when this is over is over or leave now and not get hurt in the end. It’s up to you
But.. I guarantee you this won’t last if it does it will have an end somedays.
It’s all up yo you.. if I were you I’d leave like a Queen and but turn my head ( when he messages calls etc)


I’m sorry sounding harsh but trust this GAG grandma I have been there. My tip is to leave asap and focus on finding a real deal man with a future in it. Don’t waste your precious years with a dick

[Dorian451]

A'ight, it looks like he is seeing other women. He's lying to you, Valentine. He's sayin' he wants what you want to lead you on. Loving bombing you. It sounds like he wants a threesome.

I am sorry you have to deal with that arsehole, Valentine.