What did I do wrong be honest, brutally honest?

Bekaaaaaaaahhhh

We hooked up one week ago. I was turned off at his drug usage in front of me and him changing our plan from five guys to drinks at his house but we did hook up

He was texting me all through out the week. We meet up again I tell him it’s my time of the month he says he just wants to see me, I told him. I have plans but can still see him. Whilst I see him my plans fall through one friend cancels the others claim to be late etc. We just dry hump then he seems very uninterested in his phone etc.

But turns out my cousin knew him from 3 years ago and found him hot interesting

he asks do I want to stay or what, I say I don't know. I had needs so I expressed interested in hooking up he expected oral before anything and was demanding about it almost shaming me for expecting direct oral sex without wanting to give him head. and trying to pull my boobs out of my bra. He just asked why I was being hella crazy and stuff. As in wanting to jump into sex. I decided to leave he said he did not want me to leave and tried to hesitate but I decided self care would be to go home and eat some good food have some wine and realise this was part of my healing journey.. he did say he did not want me to go and that he didn’t want to see me Leave when I did leave he offered Uber. I said no my friend is picking me up somewhere locally l. but he also seemed to be distracted by his phone. I don't know

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Update: I didn’t include this he tried oral could see I wasn’t into it, went soft asked for a kiss could still see I was annoyed, I just got up and left, he got ready tried to ask me what’s wrong and hug me I kept leaving, and later blocked him everywhere. I feel so guilty. Did I make the right decision?
What did I do wrong be honest, brutally honest?
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