What does it mean if a guy says you are sexually intimidating to him?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

and starts sweating and his forehead goes all hot telling me he’s under so much pressure

[elew4too]

Like, sexually as in your appearance (e. g. you look sexy in that outfit)? Or sexually as in your sexual performance (e. g. we had lots of sex last night)? If it’s the former, then guys often have physiological barriers when talking to beautiful women that they don’t otherwise have: stammers, sweaty palms, lack of confidence, etc. Trying to qualm those tendencies is like trying to stop shivering when it’s cold outside.

If it’s the latter (in the bedroom), then you’re probably rocking his world, and he feels like he can’t reciprocate. I don’t think that’s a problem though, as long as you’re willing to be patient, engaging, and forgiving while he learns your body (if he isn’t rocking your world). Positive reinforcement always works

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Maybe you are right he has a lot more experience than me and he seemed confused by it too he told me, “ I don’t even get under this much pressure at work” then said “I guess you are more sexually intimidating than the other girls I don’t know I’ve not been with someone like you I just attracted to you and don’t want to fuck it up”

[MrCommodore]

Did this happen while you were both getting it on?

If so, he must think you too sexy or something.

If not, it would be a bit weird, like he is a virgin.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Yeah I told him he has more experience than me and he seemed confused and said I know, I don’t even get under this much pressure at work then said “I guess you are more sexually intimidating than the other girls I don’t know I’ve not been with someone like you I just attracted to you and don’t want to fuck it up” maybe he’s been single for a long time? Lmao

[MrCommodore]

Oh okay, yeah maybe he has, but its a strange comment. Like sexual intimation quickly dissipates once people actually have sex a few times. I'm surprised he actually said that.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Do you think he was drunk he did have a few beers we have been intimate before. Maybe he just likes me a lot and felt insecure but yeah I was surprised to hear it too

[MrCommodore]

I'm not sure, particularly since you already have been intimate before, i struggle to get what he is referring to. Is it possible he was having performance issues and perhaps was embarrassed and used it as an excuse?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Maybe that would make sense. but he must’ve been very embarrassed as his forehead was genuinely really hot and sweaty. Just an odd scenario

[MrCommodore]

Yeah I think most guys would be hugely embarrassed if that happened, but it can happen to anyone, especially if out drinking, that makes sense now.

[MrCommodore]

Do you do modelling, singing or acting etc?

[Slay256]

It means that he’s not ready for sex cause us guys are never intimated if we truly love a woman. It just means he’s not up to that point. I don't know lol, but if i said i felt intimated it would mean that I’m not in the right mindset to be doing anything sexual with you. You gotta ask him why he feels that way.

[OfMiceandMen]

He may think you are very hot and it intimidates him or it could mean your coming on a little strong and intimidating him.

[Guy13]

It means you are stacked well and very sensual. And, he’s not sure if he can handle you.

[Guardian45]

It means you walk away. He's got issues that you DONT want ANY part of!

[JaredFS]

Maybe that he can't handle your self-confidence?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Actually I’ve shown myself to be very insecure around him he said he didn’t want to mess it up maybe he’s not confident

[JaredFS]

Yeah, sounds that way. Is he afraid to have sex?

[SpaceGalaxy]

It simply means he is hornier than a rabbit

[AFretiredTXn]

You are way better than he is.

[TallAnon]

That he feels like he needs to perform

[Bklynbadboy12]

He's saying you look hella good

[Alex8736]

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