How can I help him?

[ilikesnow]

so my friend has been acting reaally weird lately and at one point he even said that i’m annoying. so i asked him why he thinks im annoying, and i’m trying to change so i’m not ‘annoying’. one of the things he said is that i point out very obvious things, but i believe i only do that because i don’t really know what to reply to his text. so a few minutes ago he sent me a few photos and i replied something that was really obvious (unintentionally ofc, i didn’t know how to reply). then he replied: ‘wow we got a smartie pants here!!! you want a medal? fck off’ he usually doesn’t act like this so i really want to help him in anyway possible but not sure how.. please help me

[SnowedIn]

I would help him by continuing to be you. Just be yourself. Do NOT change for him; only change because you're on a path of being you. All of you are growing and changing and figuring out who you are. His path may include being a jerk. So, help him by being consistent. He'll always know where you stand and who you are.

[SnowedIn]

Thank you for MHO! :)

[weysally]

how old is he, boys quite often go through a like time zone, something like what girls go through, but sometimes, with boys, their teen years don't fit with their bodies like one part says have sex the other says no, let's wait, have you noticed any difference when having sex

[ilikesnow]

he’s my friend.. why would we have sex

[weysally]

I only asked to further clarify the situation,