Guys, why didn't he say anything?

[Anonymous]

So we were intimate recently and used handcuffs. I gave him a bj while my hands were on his chest.

After he got off etc he left the room and a little bit later I told him I had fun and that we should use them more often.

He didn't say anything and I know he got what I said. Why wouldn't he say anything in response?

Now I feel humiliated/embarrassed.

[Anonymous]

Screw him. You can use those cuffs on me any time you want ;)

No, but it sounds like maybe he wasn't that into it. Some part of it made him feel weird and his silence was his way of telling without telling you how he really feels.
People can be weird about sex sometimes.

That's what I gathered from the info you gave. There could be deeper meanings behind it, like he's not super into you anymore, but I don't know a thing about your relationship with him and don't want to jump to that conclusion without any facts to support it

[Asker]

I don't really get that though because I tols him I had the handcuffs on the bed and he came in the room really fast and took his clothes off even faster and then put the cuffs on me. He was the one who said to put the handcuffs on his chest and he was the one who first said we should use them

[Opinion Owner]

Just because he wanted it doesn't mean he liked it, but either way I don't think anyone can give you a straight answer but him.
Just ask him. "How come you didn't say anything when I said we should use the hand cuffs again?"

The only times I've been quiet after sex is when I was disappointed in myself for not being able to "perform"

[Asker]

He had his hands on my wrists the whole time and he also got off from it so I don't know why he wouldn't have liked it. Not issues performing. Usually if there is and issue he says something

[Opinion Owner]

Fuckin way she goes bud

[Asker]

Huh?

[Anonymous]

Not sure, but you have no reason to feel that way.

[Texas_guy]

Sorry that happened