A guy asked me to go to the gym with him, what does that mean? Is he trying to say I need to lose weight?

[cdimples99]

[MaazHussain]

It's not necessarily the case that the guy is implying that you need to lose weight if he asked you to go to the gym with him. There are many reasons why someone might suggest going to the gym together, such as wanting to have a workout buddy or just wanting to spend time together in a healthy way. It's best to ask him directly about his intentions and clarify why he invited you to the gym. Communication is key in any relationship or potential relationship, and it's always better to have an open and honest conversation rather than making assumptions.

[SteveSmith1985]

No... he was trying to ask you out on a low-key-casual date. He wants to get to know you better. Holy shit. This right here... is why it's good this site exists. You might not be the only woman to interpret it this way. But goddamn are you ever wrong in that interpretation.

No guy on earth would ever invite a girl to come to the gym with him, because he thought she needed to lose weight. Ever.

This guy is interested in you. (or at the very least wants to get to know you better, and spend more time with you. Sounds like interest to me). 🙂

[silvermoon84]

Not necessarily. He’s probably just into fitness and (assuming you are too), he just sees it as a date idea. I’m not sure where you live but in my area gym dates are quite popular. Either that, or he’s looking for a work out partner and thinks you would be a good fit for one.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Could mean anything. Could be he wants you to go with him so he has someone to talk to while there. Some people don't like going alone

[coachTanthony]

No he would like to spend some time with you doing an activity. If he said let's take a cooking class together you wouldn't think he thinks you need to learn how to cook would ya?

[FilmGuy93]

No, he's just trying to spend time with you, doing something he knows he enjoys.

[Chazmatazz269]

Nope. Here’s an important thing to know about men, we rarely speak in subtext. If he asks you to go to the gym with him it’s because he wants to go to the gym with you. Simple. If he tells you that you need to lose weight, then and only then can you fairly assume he thinks you should lose weight.
This is the primary source of miscommunications between men and women. Men are typically more honest, factual and concise. We kind of expect the same in return. Women speak in subtext more, use more emotion and way more words. They also tend to expect as much. Men who are better at reading subtext communicate better with women. Women who can be direct communicate better with men.
If you want long term success with men, NEVER read ANYTHING into the words they use. If you need clarification, ask for it and you’ll usually get it, but DO NOT put your words in their mouths. That’s an early step toward guaranteed failure.

[OfMiceandMen]

Not sure why women always think the worst of men?

More than likely he thinks you're attractive, he likes working out and maybe wants to do something with you other than go out for a coffee or a drink?

He may even think you're really sexy and wants to see you in some workout clothes?

Sometimes guys have good intentions...

[Fireguy17]

no, he isn't implying that you need to lose weight.

I don't think most of us are that smart, and it isn't like you will magically lose 10lbs in 1 workout, not saying you need to lose any weight. maybe he wants to show off, it is something different, and working out can stimulate your body.

[Nik1hil]

Hell NO!..

He does not mean to say anything else except!.

He wants to workout and sweat with you in the gym!..

Besides look at it like, if you work out and burn more calories then you get to take few more bites of that forbidden snack that you so much desire

[Gopnik]

This one may be a more general tip but when i say this most guys will agree when i say take things literally when a guy says something. He just wants to go to the gym with you that's all. Nothing more nothing less. Girls tend to search for hidden meanings behind our words but it's very rare we do that, girls do that but we almost never do that. And when we do we're very bad at hiding that.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

"Is he trying to say I need to lose weight?"

Why was that the first thing that you thought of?

He may have asked you to join him simply for your company.

[melanieeeB]

He is just trying to spend time with you and if the gym is one of his hobbies, then he also wants to share his hobby with you

[Luopio27]

I was about to say that.

[StormChaser838]

No, don't try and over think, it's much better to just ask him if he did mean anything else by asking you to got to the gym. But of cause, be a little tactful when you ask him and choose a relaxed time.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

It means that he is interested in you and want you to stay fit and healthy just like him and one more reason behind this if you go somewhere else then he won't be able to help in exercising and protecting from other boys bad eyes.

[SnowedIn]

He'd like to spend time with you and respects you enough to go to the gym with you. A guy won't take just anyone to the gym.

[Pyrofox]

Sounds more like a workout date in my opinion.

[bowenw]

I doubt it. He probably just wants to hang out with you.

[jshm2]

He wants to see you shaking that ass.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/DDjoouqRnhk

[Anonymous]

This is why men seem complicated to women because you can’t just say ok. There always has to be something behind it. In your warped little mind you start complicating things. Maybe he likes you.

[Qinart]

Don't overthink it, he probably just wants to go to the gym with you :)

[lightbulb27]

women... they love indirect communication!

Guys are direct... go to the gym, he wants to spend time with you and get in shape.

[Guy13]

He is trying to see how tight you are in gym and looking for the camel toe. It is so of creepy pervert to me.

[RavVid]

Very unlikely he wants to make you lose weight. More likely he fancies you and wants to check you out in tight gym clothing.

[John_Doesnt]

It means he wants to see you wear those tiny yoga shorts that show off

[DermalPunch]

No he wants to see you squat. Clearly wants to bang. Or look boss at the gym with a girl.

[Truthatanycost]

Maybe he wants to see you in tight leggings.

[Guardian45]

HAHAHA!!!😂🤣
I DONT THINK SO! He likes you, Silly!

[Pacquet]

I can’t believe these questions sometimes. I bet he just wants a gym buddy.

[cdimples99]

yes, I am sure he does, but my follow up is - does it mean he is just interested in being friends?

[Pacquet]

Him inviting you to the gym is not indicative of anything. If you like him maybe flirt a little, make it known somehow, you’re allowed.

[Mangospacho]

I doubt it. It’s like a guy asking you to dinner doesn’t mean he thinks you don’t eat enough.

[Babygirl_S]

Please don't overthink it. He just likes you.

[Guy2809]

Maybe he just wants to spend some time with you doing something he likes and that he thinks you may enjoy.

[AngryCarl2]

No it just means he wants to go to the gym and he's scared to go alone. or maybe he just wants to get to know you better.

[Mayo503]

No ….
Why you thinking like that for…?
Maybe he needs a weight partner….
Or just trying to be friendly with you…
Hope it works for you

[es20490446e]

He just wants a greater chance of being with you.

[boobliker]

he wants a girl on his arm so not to look gay

[Djaay]

I asked my girlfriend to marry me 6 years ago , but she didn't accuse me of trying to look under her dress..

[Anonymous]

Typical girl. Find the worst possible way to interpret something innocent a guy says...

[Anonymous]

Well, he is obviously after something. I would think twice before going.

[HaveNoName]

He wants to see you in gym attire where pratically every curve of your body is exposed.

[msc545]

No, he's just trying to get you to go to the gym with him. Don't read too much into this.

[standardguy]

May be. Perhaps he just wants to see if you are a tough woman who tries to fight her limits.

[SmokinAces2000]

Maybe it means he just wants to workout with you, sounds like you’re reading too much into it

[krin_m]

He wants to spend time with you and looking for a gym buddy!

[WhiteBoyChill]

No. He literally just wants to spend some quality time with you doing something he enjoys

[kcmojo19]

No, he's attempting to observe and appreciate you in tight workout clothing. lol

[Anonymous]

no you dumbass he was trying to ask you out on a day date

[Ms_Facesitter]

A healthy date is how I see it.

[sheenagwapa]

maybe he just want to spend time with you

[JJ092003]

Nope just wants to share his interests

[Avicenna]

No, it’s flirting

[JosyJosy]

Don't overthink, just enjoy

[elizamichale1]

Not necessarily

[lottiebannotie]

He wants to see you in lycra

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Spend time with me.

[zagor]

Wow, that is the least likely explanation.

[Crankor]

Depends if your overweight lol

[EaterPeter]

Bonding activity, play date?

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[Heolurt]

Or maybe he wants the moral support.

[JohnK123]

Another hang out?

[cloud9vortex1234]

He just wants to spend time with you.

[Tomisworthless]

Yup he thinks your fat

[In_Trance]

Smh no
Are you going or not?

[Amur8711]

Its more like he is interested in you.