Why do some good looking people have very few friends?

[jennifer_bloom]

I know guys who look like absolute angels that always have a very small circle of connections, sometimes less than 5 or 8 non work or business phone numbers. I am confident and charming but don’t like to have friends cause friends cost money.

[Dіldорhоbe]

• They may be shy or introverted.
• Maybe they don't comsciously put in the effort to make and keep friends.
• They may also be intimidating to others by their appearance.
• Their personality or attitude may make it hard for them to form meaningful connections.
• They may be too busy all the time.
• Some people may feel envious of someone who is good-looking, and so they may not be interested in becoming friends.

[OfMiceandMen]

I'm that way, have very few close friends other than my SO. Like you said friends cost money and they want to go out all the time, which is not my thing.

The other thing is I am so busy at work during the week, that I have very little time left on my weekends, so I like to spend quality time with my girls.

[OfMiceandMen]

Thanks.🙌

[exitseven]

The urban legend goes that hot looking girls never get asked out because most guys just figure they will get shot down. There was a hot looking girl that was in my homeroom in high school. She really was not one of the popular kids. She was not a cheerleader either. i don't know who she hung out with but I assumed she was going out with college guys. I really wanted to ask her out and i tried to talk to her a couple ot times but she did not seem interested. A couple of tears later I ran into a kid that lived next door to her. He told me that she stayed home most of the time and as far as he knew she never had a boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

From a female's POV, it's because every guy wants you and every girl wants to be you. It creates a lot of unnecessary drama. So as someone who's been considered attractive her whole life I would say that I only have a few very close friends and their actual numbers. The rest of my contacts are either family or work related.

I also mainly have male friends and a few female acquaintances simply because men are more direct, less drama and when you find one you can be yourself around without the sexual attraction it's really nice to just be treated human. I've met very few females who are down to earth enough to not be involved in drama 24/7.

Basically, less people to hurt you. Less people to waste time, energy, and money on. Simpler life.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Maybe they did but don't trust many people any more. A lot of folks out there are deceitful.

[ChiTown33]

Because it's about quality not quantity.

[Anonymous]

Because they don't fit in with the masses.

[Elozaa]

The more friends the less peace etc. ...