Are attractive people friendzoned?

Question

I know this is a very shallow question lol but do you have any experiences of this or know sscenarios like this?

ScruffyNerfHerder · Accepted Answer

Yep, although they get more chances before they get "punished" with the friendzone, lol.

Like I say to all the guys, being friendly is a great and necessary first step, but if you want to be thought of as a lover, you have to be sexually attractive--and that is largely behavioral.

You can have the most handsome man in the world, but if he doesn't know how to talk to women, they're eventually going to give up on him as a romantic interest. Same thing is true of women, men will give up on even the prettiest girl if she's like talking to a stone (although I think pretty girls receive even more leeway than the stone, haha).

Hans222 · Accepted Answer

I think if attractive people (ab) use their attractiveness instead of being a nice person they may very well get friendzoned. If you want to enter someone's heart you have to be an attractive person. Not only visually, also your attitude.
You meet that criteria :-)

BuchitaBuchys · Accepted Answer

I imagine attractive people would, maybe not as often as the rest of us, but still being good looking isn't enough for a relationship.
I guess I have been "friendzoned" but eh. That's what happens. I'm not good nor bad looking. In the middle but all the guy friends I asked out rejected me. Maybe less than average.

Aud_Queen · Accepted Answer

Never. If I like someone and they don't feel the same, I move on and keep them as friends sometimes. The friendzone comes when the person is still pining for someone who doesn't feel the same.

I don't have problems getting guys I like. Most of the time they feel the same. Does that make me attractive? :P

BelleGirl21 · Accepted Answer

There could be many reasons for friend zoning someone. The reality of the relationship not working, not wanting to hurt the other person, no chemistry, different beliefs, different goals, not ready for commitment...

Genie23 · Answer

I know a guy at office. who is damn handsome.. But he is fed up cause he is always friendzoned. So, yup! Some of them do.

cavmanier · Answer

Well if I'm in a relationship, all other girls are friend zoned (unless I don't understand exactly what that means). By that logic I'll say yes. If I'm single looks aren't the only factor I'm interested in. Plus there is no such thing as a universal attractive person.

Mesonfielde · Answer

Of course they are, if the person doesn't really want to date them ever. For example, someone can be physically attractive, and even seem like a really nice person, but if they have psychotic tendencies and/or delusions, hell maybe they are rigorously religious, then that's a no-no and therefore an addition to the friendzone list at best.

NoMoreDreams · Answer

The friendzone only exists if you make it exist. Not everyone will have mutual feelings for each other. If someone gets rejected they aren't "friendzoned" it just means that the other person was honest about how they felt and didn't want to lie and say yes because then it's not fair to either of them.

Bandit74 · Answer

Attractive people are probably more likely to get "fuckbuddy-zonned" but I'm sure it also possible for them to be friendzoned.

Prof_Don · Answer

Yes they do. Just because there is physical attraction, doesn't mean that there is chemistry.

TonyRyan · Answer

More than likely, I don't personally have any experience in this area though so I'm not positive, just assuming. I'm also assuming that in such cases it's because it's their personality lacking.

Harrison4073 · Answer

Yes, what people look for in a friend is not the same as what they look for in a partner. For example, I have a friend who is very attractive but I wouldn't date her as she would drive me mad.
It's been pointed out by a mate of mine as well that just because 2 people are friends it doesn't mean they could date, because they may just not be compatible in that way.

Toad-1 · Answer

Maybe it'd be more like 'too intimidated to make a move on you Zone' lol. If they are drop dead gorgeous there's just no way i could muster up the courage to ask her out. and if we're friends, i'd rather just stick with that. soo sureee

spuitkaas · Answer

I've been friendzoned once. Some people find me attractive.  I friendzone people if I think I'm not compatible with them, even handsome guys. So I think. it certainly can happen.

Your_boss960 · Answer

I'm not that attractive and I always get freindzones. I think it's the other way around

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

hmm im not sure. if it didn't work out then sure lol. but automatically? I doubt it.

evenlift · Answer

They can be, but less often than unattractive people.

Bluemax · Answer

Yes, attractive people get rejected, too. However, they get rejected less than unattractive people. Oh, I almost forgot! Insert obligatory remark about how the friend zone doesn't exist.

Sairapanda · Answer

attraction varies everyone is different and likes something different so it all depends but I think anyone can get friend zoned personally :)

aficionado · Answer

Actually it is the opposite! Unattractive people are friendzoned!

abundantlyrich · Answer

Boring people gets friendzoned.

DarkHumorRUs · Answer

How to not get friendzoned: Step 1: Be attractive. Step 2: Repeat Step 1.

PiuBelloAmante · Answer

Hmmmm interesting, I don't know lol i dont think it has anything to do with physical attractivenss

RationalLioness · Answer

I'm sure some are. I consider myself attractive and I've been done the same way.

DanteSparda · Answer

I won't lie but I've been in that situation plenty of times :P :P

Anonymous · Answer

Gah you are killing me girl. There can be numerous reasons ranging from someone not being their type to being taken. *shoots you in foot*.

thesunstillshines · Answer

If a girl or guy is hot but awkward then they probably will be friendzoned other reasons they might be friendzoned. The other person isn't connected with their personality.

soccerchick4eva · Answer

pree much anyone can get friendzoned, attractive or not attractive

SlimShadylp21 · Answer

No baby. Omg you're so beautiful. I love your pic. :)

Northeast106 · Answer

Not usually, I don't see too many attractive women single.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah lol. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I friendzoned an attractive cheerleader back in HS. The ironic thing is that she fell for me, lmao. I wasn't even attractive. The entire picture is reversed -.-

Anonymous · Answer

It's a good question and no--attractive people aren't friendzoned. A person is friendzoned only when they are not sexually attractive to the other person.

SatanClaus · Answer

Umm i have friendzoned some good looking girls in the past cause i never knew anything about relationships and was too scared :/

JustinX9 · Answer

it is the opposite... but it does happen but it occurs more on unattractive people

albundyfan · Answer

If im attractive , then yes. If not , then still probably yes.

rocccky · Answer

well.. it depends if you think i am attractive... bcz i was friendzoned once.

Princessofpersia · Answer

I get friend zoned all the time. I think I'm ok looking

ButterSauce · Answer

Maybe if they have a really crappy personality

kheserthorpe · Answer

Yes, but its rare, for a few reasons.

front2back · Answer

The friendzone doesn't exist, so...

Anonymous · Answer

Friend zone is a nice way of saying that they don't like you.

moxygirl11 · Answer

Yes anyone can be friendzoned

JustinCaseUDontKnow · Answer

Yes attractive people get friend-zoned

muspelhem_5 · Answer

Guess it could get you fuckbuddyzoned, at least.

StickStickity13 · Answer

Yes, by other attractive people probably

Watermelonoma · Answer

yeah they are, but i'm guessing its not often

Ihav2fart · Answer

Only after I know its not gonna happen.

Toadette · Answer

I'm ugly and still not friendzoned :(

rubifen · Answer

Absolutely.

JoeyTheITalian · Answer

uhm I don't know. I hope not or i'm x_x

Bethanycats · Answer

I'm always friendzoned...

Mad_Batman · Answer

yes i am sure that they do

Anonymous · Answer

Probably not... attractive people are so lucky

kadirx · Answer

of course. I think it does. :) :*

Theoke · Answer

im in friendzone my whole life it sucks >.<

Anonymous · Answer

Yes they are, and for various reasons at that.

Anonymous · Answer

MOST of the time... they feel intimidating...

blondfrog · Answer

No ugly people are

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