Why do I often think I come off as tougher or more dangerous than I do?

[Eonttntn]

I am a soft touch smh Lol. And even beggars linger in my face even if I ignore them but not others around in the area. SMH. The soft touch must really radiate off me.

strangers love approaching me for example for asking for directions. Chile what do I look like a map. Lol. Some stuff I don’t mind helping. I am a softy and friendly at heart and open hearted. But I hate when dark forces within others see me as easy prey. That happens a lot too. Men think they’ll get something from me.

tel you what I’m more sturdy inside than I look but I’m still extremely soft. I guess everyone’s trying their luck. ;\

[Guy13]

Hello there hot thing ♨️

https://www.youtube.com/embed/81fwEmP2CKY

[Eonttntn]

Did you call me hot?

[Guy13]

I typed that because you couldn't hear it in my breathe as I was so overcome by the opportunity of

what I was going to get from you. Have you wrapped around my finger (Video) and you saw my

magic stick... but

[Eonttntn]

Well you are like the other opportunist man’s?

[JJ092003]

It's ok to be soft. But don't let people walk all over you either. Know where your boundaries are and stick to them

[Anonymous]

You sound like a nice person, and there's not many of those left.
What the problem is?

[Eonttntn]

It’s the fact everyone can tell I’m a nice person or soft touch. I feel hurt sometimes and also sometimes men seem to pick on me cause of it seemingly thinking they will get something from me.

[Opinion Owner]

Send them to hell and make them glad they're on their way.
There's nothing scarier than the wrath of a sweet woman

[Eonttntn]

Thanks haha gives me hope :)

[Opinion Owner]

Course!

[Iron_Man]

Well, it’s good to help people out and be kind

[BeMuse]

Dunning–Kruger effect.

[BeMuse]

I'm the opposite. I often over estimate my ability to come off as easy going and nonthreatening. People often tell me I just have to talk and people crap their pants because of my deep voice. I really don't understand that one because I know how to be very aggressive and dominate, so when I'm hold all that back and am being friendly you'd think people would notice.