Why am I a bare minimum chick to him?

[Anonymous]

He just does the bare minimum

• No romance or effort on his part first: if it is its once in a blue moon
• He doesn't buy him nice things just saves his money
• He claims he's building for our future but I dont believe it as he's not provided a ring which is fine.. just let me go & he doesn't show that he likes me.
• I know he loves me but everything is initiated by me
• I've done everything under the sun to prove I'm worth it. he's kept me around but it mostly feels he's tolerating me

[spartan55]

Is there something preventing you from dumping him? You are asking a question that isn't important.

[Asker]

Maybe not to you. You prick

[spartan55]

Wow, and what a surprise pink anon acts like trash... 😂... you're a joke.

[Asker]

Spartan you've always been one. Step off

[spartan55]

What a creative comeback... about what I expected.

[Asker]

Okay

[LazerBean]

Because he wants to and knows he will get away with it.

[boggboss]

And u have spoken to him about your issues

[Asker]

Yes. A lot of it he may be stressed about Bill's and wanting to make more money. Him and I are on two different wave length paths to me... mostly our relationship was survival... not much fun.. at least not on his part. I'm tired

[boggboss]

At that point u have decided to get with someone that not at the same point u are or have different goals which means u are choosing to remain unhappy

[Asker]

My therapist told me to stay as I'm going to have his daughter soon
And that my daughter deserves two parents. I'm going to walk away soom

[Asker]

Soon*

[boggboss]

Are u prepared and able to be a single parent and do u understand the hardships that will come with that

[Asker]

I was raised by one.
Not scared of that.
The father is more than welcome to see their child.
We can co parent I just dont want to be with him anymore

[boggboss]

Fair enough

[KrakenAttackin]

Why did to choose to get pregnant? This was pretty dumb.

[Asker]

@KrakenAttackin I didn't choose it.

[Asker]

I decided to keep it tho

[boggboss]

Wait how did u guys not choose to get pregnant did u not use contraception?

[Asker]

It doesn't matter how I got pregnant.
I'm pregnant and decided to keep it. I'm moving forward with my life nosey

[Asker]

It doesn't matter how or why I got pregnant. The root is I've kept a kid with a guy I'm not into. Because what I've been through I decided to keep my child. Regardless if im in a relationship or not. I've tried to make it work but im not gett it'll ng my needs met. I could stay. But I dont want to anymore okay?

[boggboss]

I was just wondering as I'm confused why u would get pregnant with someone that there where clearly issues but yes its not important and hopefully it works out for you and your child

[KrakenAttackin]

Of course you did. You stopped using BC to deliberately get pregnant.

[Guy13]

Ask him🤷🏻‍♂️ Talk to counselor

[Asker]

I can accept that maybe our plans are severely different now.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you bagged a selfish man.

[Asker]

Bagged is the wrong fycking term.
Lol

[Asker]

he's actually not selfish he just is incapable of meeting my needs...

[Opinion Owner]

Well if you don’t want honest opinions, don’t ask.

[Asker]

Oh no I want honest opinions lol
Bagged is just the term I wouldn't use is all but never mind. I agree to what you said tho

[Wise4myage]

Id say its time to dump that guy.

[Wise4myage]

Surely you can do better?

[Asker]

I don't know

[Wise4myage]

Of course you can, but its your choice.