Why does this guy see me as side chick material?

[Anonymous]

This guy who has a girlfriend tried to make a move on me. I, of course, politely refused and blocked him. I was just wondering what makes me “side chick” material rather than someone worthy of respect and proper commitment. What about me says “whore” rather than wife material?

I’m:

-educated, ambitious, financially stable and make great money in my career
-self-assured
-people tell me all the time that I am classy, intelligent, and proper
-My style is classic and I dress modestly
-I’m a virgin
-I don’t go out a lot
-I have a healthy social life (I’m in a book club, a graduate chapter of my sorority, volunteer organizations, in addition to my circle of like-minded friends)
-I exercise and eat healthily and I’m naturally slender and tall
-I cook well and clean
-I can carry an intelligent conversation

Updates

+1 y

By “go out” I mean bars and clubs. I of course, like to travel, attend jazz concerts, run 5Ks, try different restaurants, etc.

[MissGeorgia]

If he is in a committed relationship, it's the only vacancy available.

There are plenty of guys who will give you what you are looking for. This guy is a dick.
It's best to leave that one alone.

[Kaneki05]

your thinking to hard, Guy with girlfriend who wanted to cheat saw girl who was attractive and asked to have sex. There is no other meaning than this. It could of been any girl he asked longs if they were attractive to him.

[Hangry22]

Tbh you sound like strong wife material rather than sidechick. Maybe it's because you're a virgin and a good girl?

[StrawberrySmoothie]

Don’t let him question yourself. Just because he tried to make a move does not make you
“side chick material”. He probably does that to a lot of other girls. You are worthy of love and respect.