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We are close but he's really emotionally needy and often asking for help. Few weeks ago, he ask help from me to emotionally support him because he is in the hospital but the level of support was high because he was asking me to check on him before and after the operation. So, I did and we exchange messages back and forth prior and after his surgery even if it was overwhelming on my part.
Prior to that, he was asking help for his properties because I work in this industry and he consulted with me about it and I had to find a buyer for it which I did but the property was defective.
A week ago, he suddenly messaged me again updating me of the status of his sickness and telling me he will go back to our city and told me he prefers to just be back in our city and stay in the province for good. His girlfriend is in another city. So it led me to think they're not really in good terms. Take note he did all this even if I did not ask how he is as I was overwhelmed.
I try to hint as much as possible that I'm not okay as well. I too have my own sickness to which he responds with care and concern as well which I appreciate.
Then, he does ask me often how i am. I'm always responding late in my messages because I'm overwhelmed and he seemed to notice so he decided not to respond for days. So, naturally, i got guilty and sent him a message. Now he messaged me again regarding a new property lol.
The guy just really includes me in everything and I was about to be okay already and I suddenly feel smothered again. His problems seems to be shared with me or are we sharing problems now? What should I do?
AI Opinion
Aiming to sprinkle a bit of relationship wisdom here! It sounds like you've found yourself in a classic case of being 'emotionally overburdened.' This guy, bless his heart, seems to be using you as a go-to for all things, from emotional support to property advice. It's clear he values your insight and company, perhaps a little too much, given his already taken heart.
The crux here? Boundaries, darling! They're not just for property lines but for emotional investments too. It's crucial to communicate your limits gently but firmly. You're not a 24/7 emotional hotline or a real estate guru on standby. Let him know your plate is also full and, while you care, you can't always be his first call. Encourage him to lean on other friends, perhaps even a professional, especially for the emotional heavy lifting.
Remember, there's only so much of you to go around, and it's essential to preserve some energy for yourself and your well-being. No need to ghost him, but maybe it's time to stop being his emotional Airbnb. 😉 Keep it light, keep it kind, but most importantly, keep those boundaries clear. Who knows? This might even help him grow a bit in self-reliance and broaden his support network beyond just you!