He threatens to break up Every time we argue?

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Even over small things, or when he is clearly wrong. After he says"I dont wanna see you sad" but its him who made mw cry and sad...

Every time we argue and it's over some petty stuff he justs says let's break up because I'm not happy or satisfied always picking on him for nothing. He never admits when he's wrong, I'm always the bad guy and his way is the right way always. I am honestly so close to letting him go even though I love him and it'd hurt for a while but it's better than the torture he's putting me through.

My problem is that his manipulation is working because every time he threatens to break up I get really nervous and try to convince him to stay and I know I shouldn't but it just happened.

After i talk and"convince" he acts like nothing happened, kisses me hugs me, talks about anew car we should buy (his dream is a caravan so we can travel)

How can he switch from"thats it, lets break up, since im so bad... i do t wanna be in a relationship"

In 2 hours calling me baby, hugging me and again making plans for future

when i talk, while convincing him to relax and think if its worth to break up over stupid stuff he just listens not saying anything at all. The he is like "yeah lets give it time maybe i need space, lets see what happens..."


He threatens to break up Every time we argue?
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