How do you flirt with a guy at work?

[Anonymous]

There's this guy at my work who I've liked for a while.

We always have a chat every morning as he has to walk past my desk every day.

I've got a meeting alone with.

How do I give him signs to show him I'm interested.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

The whole "shit where you eat" phrase is garbage.
My parents met at work and I met the love of my life at work. Plenty of long lasting loves start in the workplace.
Can it cause some issues? Yeah, but so what? So it goes sour and you ignore eachother when you pass by. Big deal. You'll both get over it.

It can only cause real issues if he's your boss or it causes a conflict of interest. Other than that, it's perfectly fine to date people at work.

I just wanted to throw that out there in light of these responses

[Anonymous]

There's a saying that wise / smart / intelligent people use in this situation and that's

"I don't shit where I eat".

Dating colleagues or approaching colleagues with interest in dating, particularly when they have shown NO interest like this guy has (he's just been nice), is oftentimes more hassle than worth. So much so there's companies that completely forbid it in writing within employee contracts.

Not only does someone have to deal with the potential HR reprecussions if the other person isn't interested and the person who is interested can't take the hint / leave them alone. But then there's the mess at work if the relationship goes south & you have to still work together.

[MrCommodore]

Start off flirting in a very subtle way to test the water, as its a workplace.

- Find out his interests, direct conversations to his interests at first, that will get his attention.

- Next throw in little flirty jokes or comments during conversations about him taking you somewhere with him. It will make him wonder, but still be uncertain. Watch to see if he reciprocate.

[nudetru]

by expressing ha ha I can do it to.. you cause your hot..

but the role reversed grounds for dismissl
professional exile.. loss of seniority

for you just havin bit of fun with a double standard
fully aware consequences for him

no big deal.

yup

professional

every give following him home night after night

[OfMiceandMen]

I don't flirt with girls at work. It opens up a whole can of worms that you can't undo.

Sure it may go well and you end up together, but what if it goes badly... and it can go badly!

[SnowedIn]

You don't.

You go to work to work.

Not flirt or date or sex. Nothing good happens from that at work. Ever.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I wouldn't flirt with a guy at work... that's gay. Can we please talk about lesbians now?

Lesbians are the acceptable gay.

[ThomasDavid1989]

DO NOT DATE COWORKERS

It's Unethical, immoral, and sometimes even, illegal

[riverrat3]

same as any other guy, just a bit more discrete

[melanieeeB]

I don't

[slatyb]

Invite him to lunch.