If a guy is “attracted” to you but is talking to someone else and starts to avoid you… is he avoiding temptation?

[Anonymous]

Even if we never talk or anything just light attraction.

If it’s temptation… what type of “temptation”

[Fanfare690]

Maybe he's a player and not ready for you I don't know let just say he's not that interested. Maybe the other girl was way easier?

[Asker]

Yeah, maybe he is a bit of a player. She is hot which is understandable lol I’m avg looking. I guess when you’re hot you can be a bit easier bc you have options. I don't know

Maybe he was really attracted to me but he seemed like it… but I think they were starting to make it official. I remember when I dressed up he avoided eye contact and being around me. Then when I dress down he was normal… maybe that was my rejection

[Asker]

But it did seem like she was more interested than him I don't know

O well

[Fanfare690]

It's okay sweetie. You're beautiful and any man will be lucky to be with you sweets💜

[Asker]

Men only want to sleep with me lol but I appreciate the compliment

[Fanfare690]

A lot of men wanna fuck. That's okay as long as you find someone who will respect you. He's out there. Explore the world not this lame dude whose a pussy💜. Seriously go out and have fun. Forget about love for a while
It'll literally hit you when you're not paying attention trust me

[Asker]

Thank you 🥺💖

[Fanfare690]

I got you💜💜

[smashleyy]

I don’t think it has anything to do with avoiding temptation. I think you shouldn’t be okay being anothers second? third? fourth? Option. move on to someone who puts you first

[BrotherBane]

If he is interested in that someone else, then he wants to avoid two-timing her and focus more on her instead.

[Asker]

Right which is understandable

[Asker]

She’s pretty nice looking lol I’m just avg

[BrotherBane]

I understand how you feel. I've been in your shoes multiple times and I know it hurts.

I remember reading a quote that goes something like this, "You can be the sweetest orange in the room, but if the person prefers a pear, you won't ever appeal to him/her."

Have someone who will choose you for you and not second choice like what Smasleyy said.

[Anonymous]

If he attract to you than why avoiding you n talking with other? Doesn't make sense.

[Asker]

Bc he was entering a relationship with someone else

[Asker]

Don’t understand what you mean

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆