Why do I feel my crush is super shy around me?

[Sparklegirl1616]

He talks to other people more and is more confident but more reserved and still says Hii to me but not much but used to talk to me all the time?

[Guy13]

I never got like that after 7th grade so i really can not relate or understand how a mature man will not say what needs to be said and get on it.

Either he is in love or totally put off by the effort he put into you the first time chatting you up ONLY for you not to respond satisfactorily the first time around.

[Sparklegirl1616]

Is he in love with me

[Guy13]

I would be pissed if I understood order here.

[Sparklegirl1616]

What do u mean

[Gopackers02]

This is me right now with a girl lol but he’s probably nervous and doesn’t want to mess up. Me with a girl I liked in the past I was super nervous and shy like I didn’t know what to talk about and I didn’t feel a need to talk to her. Looking back she was pretty but I don’t want to date her. But I’d say you might have to sit down and talk to him and just get a convo going yo make him more comfortable. The more you two talk the more comfortable he’ll get and so on.

[opheeowlscout]

It's very possible he likes you! I read some of the replies you've given, and while some guys will see it as you friend zoning him... He might find that caring side of you attractive.

I will say, my crush acts kind of the same way but slowly he's becoming open...

May I ask if there's any other signs he's shown?

[Sparklegirl1616]

Can I message you on the site

[opheeowlscout]

Sure

[Sparklegirl1616]

Hey can you follow me back so I can message u

[Sparklegirl1616]

@opheeowlscout

[Sparklegirl1616]

Follow me back

[Akam93]

My former crush is really shy with me so shy he has a hard time speaking but he's really good at eye contact. He stares at me like he's looking at the most beautiful thing he has ever seen.

[Sparklegirl1616]

Can I message you about it

[Akam93]

Sure.

[Christoff92]

Well can say he's super shy. A girl I knew named Angelika admitted how jealous she gets when her friend Sicilia can get a lot of guys attention just by her friendly nature and high self-esteem.

Maybe assuming you got to work on your personal and cultural traits more.

[lightbulb27]

when boys have feelings, the shy/emapthetic ones (not hte narcissistic or outgoing ones), they brains lockup and can't speak.

he's on the drugs you trigger in his brain.

[lightbulb27]

it's natures way of "stunning" the other, so you can catch them...

[spartan55]

Super shy? doubt it. You didn't show him any interest, so he moved on.

[Sparklegirl1616]

I have shown him some signs like smiling at him and waving at him, standing up for him, telling him how sweet he is

[spartan55]

That's not showing interest, sorry. Telling a guy he is sweet is friendzone city. What do you mean stand up for him?

[Sparklegirl1616]

I did talk to him a lot too

[Sparklegirl1616]

Whenever people were being mean and rude I stood up for him

[Echosoul]

It's possible he feels the same way hence extreme anxiety around you

[Sparklegirl1616]

Can I message you about it and tell u the signs

[Sparklegirl1616]

Hey can I message you

[Lakeshow12]

It is a very difficult thing to do going up to someone you’re attracted to not easy for some people

[Pyrofox]

Maybe is catching on.

[rienna888]

I’d be shy around u too babe

[Sparklegirl1616]

Is he shy

[wannabecuck-2]

• Could be possible he likes u

[Anonymous]

Because you choose to see him that way.

[CoolCatMar1]

Because he is

[Sparklegirl1616]

Can I message u on the site