What do you think of men who tell girl that they are different from other guys?

[JustMeL120]

When i describe to some guys that some stuff happened woth another guy whoch is why i am acting a certain way. The show no understandong or empathy for my experience or my feelings they just come out with "i am different from other guys".

I always take that as a red flag that the guys is self centered or not realy smart.

What do you think?

[clampfan101]

I think both genders are too hard on each other, and a lot of the hate turns out to be highly exaggerated or simply untrue. (Like so many other things on the internet.) If I say I’m not as bad as a woman says all men are I’m not trying to sound special, but rather lessen the hatred and assumptions regarding men in general.

[JustMeL120]

When people start genralising i always think there is no smoke with fire. Its a natural survival thing to detect similar people and their commmon negative behaviours to protect yourself. If small percentage of men have mpre than one negative traits in common it is natural to notice it. Putting biology aside. Even in sosiology there are pigeon holes for everything. The media is influencing people of course but its our choices wether to follow it. If you see a pop up add for a free car would you click on it or would you know its most likely a scam. Well the stuff you see on the media its similar. The people who watch it and think they want to follow it wothout thinking are choosing this.
You dont have to say you are not as bad as women say. Cuz if its true people they will pick up on it for themself actions speak louder than words.
I am not saying every man is the same but lets say as a woman if i met in my life only one guy who was trying to use me for sex and be highly untitled and outraged when i said no. If it was only one i would not be generalising. I am not gonna give exact numbers but it has been more than just one trust. Not sayong all guys are bad thos is just my opinion amd from my experince. Maybe i have just been unlucky in who i met.

[LiamJHayden]

If true she will know by your actions.

[JustMeL120]

Exactly guys that have to tell girls who they ate instead of letting the girl make their own conclusion are verry insecure and in need of validation or extremely manipulative.

[Nikki1989]

99% of the time, that is a total lie. Men will say anything for sex.

[Summeroflove]

Hmm…. It really depends on the context. Aren’t we all different? But I do suppose it can be a red flag.


Obviously there is many great men out there. The times we live in yeah good people get harder to find sometimes.


If you have a bad gut feeling. You might be onto something

[JustMeL120]

I believe there are many great guys but i haven't met many. But tbh women always complain about men being pervs and obsessed with sex but they wouldn't be like that if they never got results from some girls. Most women allow guys bullshit and ruin it for other girls.

[Summeroflove]

It’s the times we live in. Good people are harder to find sometimes. But if you let bad people turn you into them you just become one of them unfortunately

[Guy13]

I made a mistake and now I know what to do snd what not to do so that I will not get caught this time.

[JustMeL120]

Glad i helped improve your manipulation skills (sarcasm).

[noohair]

It has been my experience that social media has made people very self centered.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t know why he would put it in that way. You would think that he would say you’re different from other girls

[JustMeL120]

No what i mean is for example if a girl dates a guy and the guy asks the girl somthing like why do you not tell me you adress on the first date and you tell the guy because some other guys have tried to returned to my place univited and instead of saying something like i respect that you dont know me its ok. Or i respect your choice. Or empathyse with the girl the guy says something like i am not like ever other guy. Thats just one example. It happened to me when i date a guy and he wants to get intimate quikly and when i tell him my experience with men tryong to use me he just replies i am on not like other guys. Or whe i explain that i dobt get drunk on first dates because some guysuse dru k girls insyead of approving that my choice is resonable he just replies i am diffetent from other guys.

[Iron_Man]

Well thank you for your long explanation. I’ve got to get going out now. Have a nice evening.

[In_Trance]

They're exactly same as other guys