My boyfriend does things that I ask for to look good for others is this a red flag?

[Anonymous]

I'll mention my mom or my therapist etc

They say you should do this for me..

Then he does but only specifically when he knows they can see that

Manipulation?

[designer1]

I would just straight up ask him why he seems to do this? Only one who can give an answer is him. If the answer is bs you’ll be able to smell it lol.

[DermalPunch]

He's insecure and derives ego gratification and status via your attractiveness.

[Asker]

Yuck. So what should I do (

[DermalPunch]

I misread this. my a swer does not apply. I don't know. I thought he wanted you to wear sexy clothes for others.

[Asker]

Lol what!!

[DermalPunch]

sorry. one of those days. i apologize

[EmmaMary]

Controlling... Red Flag.

[Asker]

They are all controlling wtf
I'll never be free

[EmmaMary]

Such is life unfortunately.