Is it acceptable to sleep with him on the first date?

[Anonymous]

He’s expecting sex when I stay with him, after three months of chatting regularly.

[quaranta]

It is acceptable and you are 30-35, not 18, you are definitely an adult in her own full decisional power and nobody is coming to tell you anything about that.

What looks wrong here is that you don't want to have sex with him by your own initiative, but you would do that because he "expects" that. That would be quite pathetic to accept, it would already grant you a shitty sexual experience because it's not under your terms, and setting the rules that he "leads" the sex between you two, as if your wills come last, his come first.
Why would you allow this dynamic? Abuses are made in 2 most of the times, don't let this happen if you are not comfortable with that. Have sex with him only if you are so attracted to him you can't resist and need to have sex with him that same day. It has to come from you genuinely, not from his expectations or your "guilt" that you owe him something.
And if you say "no", that could NOT be used by him as a threat to leave you or to start an argument to make you feel guilty. If he does that, well that is a blessed moment because he reveals his true colors in advance before committing to anything serious, he would show to be a coercitive person who wouldn't have respected you regardless. He should rather expect a very potential "no", instead, if this is the first time you meet at all.
If you are prone to feel guilty, tell him in advance you're more on just meeting him to know each other better, and that you can't envision any sex for now, so to not expect it.

[Anonymous]

You're a woman between 30-35. You should know what you want. If you want to sleep with him then I say do it but just know there might be consequences to your actions for doing so meaning he may ghost you but he may not. If you feel you two have a strong enough bond to where he won't do that then I say go for it. But if on the other hand you don't feel that strong connection, I'd say proceed with caution and probably opt out the sex.

[LiamJHayden]

If you do it is unlikely that he'll ever see you as anything more.

[designer1]

DO NOT sleep with him for the sole reason of him expecting it. You will regret it. Also if you’ve just been talking and there is no commitment there and he’s already expecting sex… that’s probably all he wants.

[Notsoshyguy1985]

Hopefully he can go with the flow

and you don’t assume he does want it either

[Ms_Facesitter]

Only if you both... accept. :)