Why doesn't my cuddle buddy like the fact that I am also intimate with other guys?

[Anonymous]

he got upset and says that I have plenty of other guys and that I don't need him. then he left. He was never interested in a relationship. He just wanted to cuddle and do oral.

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he says "why should i pick you if you have plenty of other guys? It also seems that you don't want me to pick you!!"

I replied: " pick me for WHAT? a committed sexual relationship? There was never any mention of commitment or dating by your or me!"

[Anonymous]

It's possible that your cuddle buddy may have developed feelings for you or may be feeling jealous or possessive about your relationships with other men. It's also possible that he may have expectations or assumptions about your relationship that differ from your own.

It's important to communicate openly and honestly with your cuddle buddy about your expectations and boundaries in the relationship. If you're not interested in a romantic or exclusive relationship, it's important to make that clear to him and to respect his own needs and boundaries as well. It's also important to listen to his feelings and concerns, and to try to understand where he is coming from.

Ultimately, it's up to you to decide what you're willing to tolerate in the relationship and what you need in order to feel happy and fulfilled. It's okay to set boundaries and to make decisions that prioritize your own well-being and happiness, while also being respectful of the other person's feelings and needs.

[Finchie40]

Cuz when a guy really likes a girl he doesn’t want her seeing other men , he doesn’t like feeling like he has competition and doesn’t want to picture her having sex with other guys , Guys are territorial to a girl he really likes he doesn’t want a whore

[Asker]

he doesn't even like me that way. we do have a connection though. he never asked me out. we never wanted a committed relationship. Nobody ever brought up a relationship. And plus, we are both whores.

[Finchie40]

Well of your both whores then what’s the issue lol

[Asker]

you didn't really answer the question.

[Juxtapose]

Jesus Christ do these people even read the damn question?

He has feelings for you but is too immature and wants to do this whole hookup culture bullshit where he denies his human nature for the sake of short lived, instant gratification style hedonism.

[serious]

Cuddle buddy?

I have never heard such a term before. Is this friends with benefits?

[exitseven]

this is an inherent problem when you have friends with benefits. Somebody always gets too attached.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Expecting him to be ok with you being a slut, is ridiculous.

[Asker]

We are both sluts

[HaveNoName]

Are you ok with him being intimate with many other females?

[Asker]

Yes i am comfortable with that

[BarryLiverstone]

Pick you to be around

[Anonymous]

Who wants someone who's f'ing other guys?

[spartan55]

Sounds about right.