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This is why opposite sex Besties never work. Cuddling verse Hugging:
Cuddling is when two people, whether clothed or unclothed, lie together, sit and lean upon one another and are intwined before an eventual getting laid moment. 🥰🤪
Hugging 🤗: affectionate greeting and embrace without face, breast, or vagina-penis contact.
Examples of when you no longer sit in my inherited 95 JAG Convertible:
1. Cuddle, sit butt touching, shoulder leaning, and/or feet or knees touching 🥰🤪
2. Anything besides “from the side hug” which includes: waist and eye-eye, bear hug breast rubbing, regular front hug, and/or from behind penis-anus and hands-breast hug 🤗 .
I’m not hanging out with the above kind of judgment. Go get your Romp on.
You already know the what you did was wrong. Now it obviously could have been a lot worse but still it was wrong.
I think you posted this question because you want someone to tell you it’s okay. It’s not. But if all you did was cuddle (right?) then you do not have to confess it in my opinion
However do the following:
If I let a guy cuddle with me, clothes or naked, he is very close to me. If his penis is hard, he's even closer by another 6 to 10 inches. So, it is permission for him to have sex with me. He doesn't have to, yet, in 100% of cases since I was 14, every guy has done. All he has to do is lift my skirt or pull my shorts down. It's right there, and it's too easy. If I am not willing to let him have sex with me, I don't cuddle with him. If your boyfriend is ok with those terms, then it's ok.
Let's put an uno reverse card on this: You come home from work/school. You're tired, you just want to relax, and you open up your door and there is your boyfriend snuggled up on the couch with another girl that is not you...
In what world would anyone be fine with this? I don't care if they've been friends since infancy, part of respecting your partner is that you don't cross this line of intimacy that should be reserved for you, the one in the relationship with that person.
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Not if its a relationship with me. That's for damn sure.
Can he cuddle girls? Exactly.
If everyone on GAG said yes would you really still do it? lol
She just wants someone to tell her it’s okay and no big deal so it will alleviate her guilt vs. just owning up to it being wrong and making amends.
What she did wasn’t right but could have been much worse. If she could just accept and admit it was a stupid decision then she more likely not repeat the behavior. She doesn’t even have to confess it if she could just own up to it herself (boyfriend would understandably assume the worst). But she can’t seem to do that and that’s actually indicative of a much bigger problem.
I swear it seems that women almost refuse to be self accountable unless there are unavoidable consequences they could face. They just can’t tolerate the feeling of any guilt. What matters is if they can get away with it and have someone tell them
its no big deal.
I know I’ve been a shithead to women in a few past isolated incidents in my life. Consequences or not at least I own up to myself I did wrong. But why is it such a struggle for women to be self accountable?
@blueonblack22 She wants to relieve guilt plain and simple. She likes the guy obviously.
Yeah but why is you always see women looking for sympathy for their shitty decisions? You don’t see guys getting away with this crap.
Owning up to doing someone wrong doesn’t make you a bad person. But doing mental gymnastics can be a bigger problem.
@blueonblack22 No idea man lol
I know why. It’s because society is almost always softer on women to begin with. Men are generally taught there are consequences to their bad decisions. Taught to “man up” and take responsibility.
Once you can own up to being wrong then you have more power to make proper amends. That’s separates an adolescent from an adult.
Now I have met a minority of women who get this and when wrong they own up to it, make no excuses and look for resolutions to make amends. They do exist. But they are much less common.
Let's frame it this way: let's say you were having a great afternoon. Excitedly headed to your boyfriend's house for an evening of Netflix and chill. You open the front door. There he is, cuddling on the couch with a friend who is a girl. Would you say that was okay?
@gummy_cluster
You have to be open-minded. Maybe her wombat got hit by a car, and her pre-paid cell phone was out of minutes? So she knocked on your door, begging to use your phone. While you are on the phone with 911, the wombat just keels over. Are you seriously not going to do your best to comfort her in her time of need? Maybe just a bit of snuggling, some Moscato wine and some animal crackers? Well, maybe not animal crackers, due to the death of her wombat, but certainly some Saltine crackers with avocado and cheddar?
Ah, I'll make a note of that. :)
LOL no that would definitely not be okay I would imagine for anyone.
If u have to ask, no. It's not even about the cuddle it's about u and ur partner. Are they OK with it? Why do u wanna do it? Are u OK with not doing it? If it's a big deal, don't do it. Knowing it makes ur partner uncomfortable should trump whatever nice physical feeling of cuddles in the moment. Would you eat a delicious food if u knew your partner would be upset that u did? It doesn't matter y, ur partner comes first. Don't intentionally upset them. If they're being unreasonable then u figure it out with them FIRST. Bottom line.
Just don't play with fire.
Cuddling with another guy will have one of these outcomes:
A. Your boyfriend/girlfriend gets very upset when he/she finds out.
B. You develop feelings for the other guy.
C. The guy develops feelings or stats desiring you.
D. You end up having sex.
Just don't start with it unless you want to end up messing your current relationship.
Individual as well, I guess. If it is a good bye/wish me luck cuddle to an old friend before getting married (and going into a marriage, to get pregnant and live a new life entitely is a big change) - then why not.
It's the underlying intention/purpose/wish that counts.
It would be equally valid to cuddle the person one _actually_ likes and go (or stay) with them instead of going into an unwanted/undesired marriage (like one of those parents or the 'community' sometimes arrange being hasty and ignorant of true feelings).
I had 2 couch surfers sleeping over. One guy, one girl. They slept naked on top of each other between the sheets. The girl was in a relationship and the guy that was sleeping naked, having the girl as his blanket... In the morning, the girl said with this its okay to sleep naked because her boyfriend doest mind. But with anyone else, it be different.
I have had few friends that have offered their girlfriends to me just for one night stands. Many porn stars are married while giving blowjobs to many men in line, infront of cameras and the world to see.
Point is, open sex relationships are nothing new, they are just more rare.
As far as I know you can have a baby with the other guy that’s fine. You can cuddle buy them a mocha latte pay their rent too. You can even do an extra weeding with the other guy beside of your current husband or boyfriend why not have an extra video-marriage with this other guy. If you are bored you can also spend weekends at his house too kinda boring always staying at your house with your boyfriend or husband.
I'm sensing a tiny bit of sarcasm here
you're sick in the fucking head lady
@Batsy01010101 she’s being sarcastic.
In these instances, I always go back to how would the girl feel, if he cuddled another girl while they are in a relationship.
If it is a hard no on him cuddling other girls, bc of jealousy, then why would someone think it is okay for them to cuddle another guy?
Kind of a double-standard.
Are you insane? no. Fuck no. You should not even be thinking about doing that if you are truly in a relationship. There is no reason for a man or woman to be around a member of the opposite sex without their SO there if it is a casual setting (not work or some kind of function).
If you were girlfriend... no. I'd break up with you. The fact that she'd even think it was ok to cuddle up nice and close and warm to some other guys body while with me or with even desire to do that would have been a slam dunk that we are incompatible and I'd be instantly done with her. She's not the one.
From my POV, I think it is okay to fuck another guy while you are in a relationship, as long as you are discrete about it, and don't fuck somebody where it will get back to your partner or other friends you have that may "report" it to your SO.
I marked "no replies" from others because saying this creates a shit storm. I say it because couples do it.
if you are wanting sex from another guy while in a relationship, just say that instead of ask such an asinine question that only the higgly uneducated and extremely inexperienced (at life in general) would not know the answer to. tge inability to know the answer to this is tantimount to having lived in an isolated solirary confinement prison cell with zero interaction, in a coma, for every moment of life up until posting this question.
Only if you’re looking for a reason to breakup soon 🙄
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It's okay as long as he is Gay, But not if he is Straight because every straight Guy has a Sexual urge towards Females that he cannot control sometimes so all your doing when your hugging him is making him want to have Sex with you especially when you don't want to have Sex with him.
It's in the line. It's not either "not cheating" or "cheating" It's the beginning of emotional cheating. That's the point you should set the boundary, stop going further and think about your partner might be get upset
think of it this way - is it okay to cuddle for a man to cuddle another girl if he's in a relationship?
i find that questions like this are always put into perspective when asked both ways, this goes for double standards for guys and girls
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Would you be happy for a boyfriend to cuddle another girl?
I think that gives you the answer. The more definitive answer is if he is happy if you say you want to cuddle with this other guy.
Outside of a survival situation, or unless he's adamantly gay, you're flirting with disaster here.
MmmNo. It's an intimate thing. Your man's going to have questions. And that friend is going to have a hardon, and questions as well. He might try to shoot his shot.
No. You're being disloyal to your current boyfriend and you're toying around with the other man's emotions.
If you feel the need to ask, then you aren't in a relationship. You should probably inforn the ex, and then go out and do whatever you feel like.
If you are in love with a man it simply feels wrong to cuddle another.
No, you're better off not even if the other guy is flamboyantly gay. Most guys will jump to conclusions.
Nah like maybe if they are family but definitely no cuddling with guy friends.
Hugging a guy friend is one thing, but cuddling or snuggling is another.
Heck now why do you think you’ve got a boyfriend? Cuddle with him by the campfire not a friend.. if women can’t control themselves they shouldn’t have male friends
What does your moral compass tell you? That is the right thing for you.
Yeap. Cuddling is just a form of affection. It isn't romantic or sexual unless you make it so.
Not unless you have an open relationship arrangement for some reason.
Absolutely not. That’s crossing a line and disrespectful to your partner.
How would you feel if he was spooned with another cute girl and you know his dick is up against her ass?
Not really. I would certainly not like my OH cuddling anyone else
As long as you're not soaking with him...
(google "mormon" and "soak")
Is it ok for him to cuddle with another girl?
The fact that there are actually people in this world who don't know the answer to this question is frightening.
The fact that you’re asking this…Especially given your age. You sound like you're 13. Do you not have any experience with relationships?
Yes, nothing wrong with it ( if he is a member of your family or a close friend)
A definite candidate for the most stupid question asked on GAG in March of 2023
What kind of dumb ass question is this? Of course it’s not ok.
Yes absolutely i cuddle with my guy friend girlfriend... she even gives me hand job.
😂 this fuckin guy
anything that you do that you would not do in front of them is cheating.
If it is only a cuddle, who cares?
so true
Nuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuw it is not.
Does really need to be asked?
No. That is 100% cheating in my opinion.
It's highly disrespectful
NO, it is NOT okay!!!
I’d never tolerate that.
Why are you even talking to other men!
are you so insecure that your girlfriend can't even talk to other men? i mean i know cuddeling goes way too far but "not talking"? xD that's ridiculous man.
@genericname85 call me what ever, this ain't happening
ok man. at least you're not delusional about it. good for you.
Cuddling is romantic so no that's not OK
Nope. Not even your dad
A normal hug is fine but nothing more
Hell to the NO!
Dick time coming
Lol, no
Nawww
Obviously no.
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