Is it okay to cuddle with someone you're not in a relationship with?

[experience]

I'm just curious about your opinions, is it okay to cuddle with someone you're not in a relationship with?

[ardent]

Hey there! That's an interesting topic, and it's definitely something that comes up a lot in discussions about boundaries and friendships. The short answer is: it depends.

Cuddling, like any form of physical intimacy, can mean different things to different people. For some, it's a comforting, platonic gesture, something friends might do while watching a movie or supporting each other through tough times. But for others, cuddling can have romantic or sexual connotations.

Here's the deal: the key is communication and consent. If both parties are on the same page about what the cuddling means (or doesn't mean), and they're both comfortable with it, then there's nothing inherently wrong with it. ​Like, if one person views it as a purely friendly thing but the other has romantic feelings, that can lead to confusion or hurt feelings.

It's also worth considering the context. For instance, if one or both of you are in a relationship with someone else, how would your partners feel about it? Open and honest communication with them is crucial too.

So, in a nutshell, cuddling with someone you're not in a relationship with can be okay, but it's super important to have clear, open communication about it and to make sure everyone involved is comfortable and on the same page.

[RavVid]

I consider sexual activity as a spectrum. On the far right there is penis in vagina, penis in mouth, tongue on clit etc etc.

On the far left there is hand holding, sitting thigh to thigh etc etc.

Cuddling is certainly somewhere on the spectrum, maybe a bit to the right of hugging. Guys can certainly get erections from it (I have) and maybe girls can get wet from it (I dunno).

If you are in a relationship than I think it would be a form of cheating to cuddle with someone else.

if you aren't in a relationship than you are free to indulge in any sexual activity. My only rider would be that it should be transparent as to intent. Are we working up to fucking or are staying below that?

[DannyUk2017]

That "someone" might "understand it" diferently, so i guess is safe to say NO, unless is a far relative that knows its boundaries. lf i "cuddle" with a woman that i don't know/she doesn't know me, and she's hot and needy, one thing can "lead" to another and by the time we both know it, we could be naked and inside of eachother, and we might regret it after, as it will be just "a thing of the moment", and then we can "turn against" eachother in arguments, as the "body language" has been "read wrong". So is better to NOT! But if both parties are single, then Cuddle away, nothing wrong with that, even could "go with the flow". 🤷‍♂️🤗

[wiltingrosepetal]

Yeah, you shouldn't go up to a stranger and cuddle them. Cuddle people you know 👍

[RoseySarah]

Agree like what is the friend ship or relationship?
Family friend or just hi internet person?

[surgent]

Absolutely, it can be okay to cuddle with someone you're not in a relationship with, but there are a few key things to keep in mind.

Consent: This is the big one. Both parties need to be fully on board and comfortable with cuddling. It's always a good idea to have a clear, open conversation about it beforehand.

Boundaries: Understand and respect each other's boundaries. What's okay for one person might not be for another, and these can vary widely among individuals.

Intentions and Expectations: Be clear about your intentions. If it's just platonic comfort, make sure that's understood. Misunderstandings can lead to awkward situations or hurt feelings.

Context and Relationship Dynamics: The nature of your relationship and the context in which you're thinking of cuddling matter a lot. For example, cuddling with a good friend during a movie night might be totally fine, while the same action in a different context or with someone else might not be.

Emotional Impact: Be aware of the emotional implications. Physical closeness can sometimes lead to or be interpreted as emotional closeness.

In the end, it's about mutual respect and understanding. As long as everyone's on the same page, and you're considerate of each other's feelings and boundaries, cuddling can be a lovely, comforting gesture among friends or acquaintances.

[serious]

If both the people involved are single and they know each other then I suppose that is okay.

It is definitely not okay when you are in a relationship other than your partner.

[Keyboardkat]

Yes, if it's okay with them, too! And who knows, you might end up in a relationship!

[exitseven]

I have had female friends that I have cuddled with or held hands with. Sometimes when we were watching Tv or at the movies.

[boggboss]

Whilst being in a relationship I would say no probobly not unless it's family

[Drumlin2001]

Sure. As long as neither of you are hiding it from anyone that you are invovled with.

[DaBiggestBird]

I doubt any wild animal would be that friendly and docile but yes

[ThrillSeeker01]

Cuddling can be very physical. Guys can embarrass themselves unintentionally.

[Staximus]

If you've already had sex with them, I think you're way past cuddling already

[LiamJHayden]

Yes, as long as both understand that cuddling is all it will ever be.

[Alex8736]

It's a feeling of feeling safe and secure around you

[Hulk30]

from women's point of view no because it sales em false hope and it's very confusin to em

[bededazzle]

totally if you want to

[bowenw]

Sure. There are no rules.

[FunkyMonkee]

I don't see why not.

[jahaims]

As long as you are both single sure.

[OddBeMe]

If you or they aren’t in one sure.

[Imaguyandagirl]

Yes, cuddling with friends is ok

[In_Trance]

as long as you both consent

[Anonymous]

I still cuddle with my little sis

[Joker_]

no..

[BLP11520]

Possibly 😉