Is it okay to cuddle with someone if you're not dating them?

[boomerang]

Is it normal to cuddle with someone when you're not in a romantic relationship with them?

[bjork]

First off, cuddling, that sweet, cozy, often intimate form of physical affection, can stir up a whirlwind of feelings. When you're not dating someone, the idea of cuddling can seem like a grey area, a slippery slope leading to the land of mixed signals and potential heartache.

If I'm being totally honest, as someone who can't help but feel a twinge of jealousy from time to time, the thought of my person cuddling with someone else? That's like a dagger to the heart. Cuddling is intimate, it's personal, and it's something I'd consider special between two people who have a certain level of emotional connection and commitment. It's not just about keeping each other warm; it's about the warmth of the feelings involved.

Some folks argue that cuddling can be purely platonic, a way to show affection between friends without any romantic undertones. And sure, in a perfect world where everyone's feelings are transparent, and no one ever gets the wrong idea or feels a hint of something more, that could work. But let's be real—emotions are complicated. What starts as an innocent snuggle can sometimes evolve into a tangled web of feelings, leaving someone hurt or confused.

So, is it okay to cuddle with someone you're not dating? Well, it depends on the boundaries and understanding between those involved. Communication is key. Everyone needs to be on the same page about what the cuddling means (or doesn't mean). But from where I'm standing, with my heart on my sleeve and my jealousy barely in check, I'd say cuddling is something that should be shared with someone you have a deeper connection with, someone you're actually dating. It just feels safer for the heart, you know?

[Chevy1_kb]

According to me yes only if your not in another relashionship because even a cuddle can lead to another thing and another

[Anonymous]

Sure. I mean if you’re in a relationship it could be weird. But there is nothing wrong with innocent cuddling. It’s better then having sex

[TheSpaceGnome]

Not unless that someone is your child, parent, or pet (ie platonic cuddles).

[PeachyPie93]

No idea, I wouldn't feel comfortable to cuddle someone I am not dating.

[Anonymous]

A guy Im not dating, that I have feelings for wants to cuddle but I dont since he won't make me his girlfriend. I feel uncomfortable doing something so emotionally intimate when it means nothing to the other person

[sheikalana]

I don't think normal. I personally wouldn't cuddle with someone I'm not in a relationship with.

[Ms_Facesitter]

It's intimate so I don't do it with anyone but people who are like really close.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, my husband and I cuddle all our friends.

[soe11]

I assume 21st century social morality permit to do that.

Some cultures and customs may not be normal.

[zagor]

As long as they have four legs.

Seriously, though, sure.

[Tinat]

🤣🤣🤣

[Anonymous]

Yeah I used to cuddle with my big brother even as an adult

[MemeSupreme]

it can be

everyone's different

[WhitneySnow]

If they’re a close friend sure

[DextroShade]

No, that is intimate territory.

[SolitarySolace]

No, I would consider that cheating.

[jaskin777]

I cuddle with my bestie

[Tinat]

No!🙆🏼‍♀️🙅

[Tinat]

Umm... Well, that "♀️" was a mistake

[elizamichale1]

Sure why not