Why do guys assume that big boobs = overweight?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Because a lot of girls that are overweight and self conscious about themselves , when they are attracted to a guy , will do what she has to do to lure him in , by saying she has big tits , which she does , she isn’t lying about that , ! but she isn’t describing everything else about her , most people are self conscious about their bodies and weight etc , I feel girls’ in general , get the brunt of it more than guys do , because men are more visual then girls are , we are attracted to a girl’s beauty and the way she looks more then how a girl is attracted to a guy for his looks , she is more attracted to the emotional connection with him , and the way he presents himself and his characteristics , and traits , looks as well but not as much , I have come across very beautiful girls that had ugly ass boyfriends that make you think how the fuck did he land her lol and the same goes with girls’‘ thinking how the fuck did she land him lol , Sadly most people in general are self conscious about themselves and their image and appearance and become their own worst enemy by thinking that person won’t be attracted to me , cuz they are beautiful and I am average and think they can easily land someone way more attractive then me. So they don’t even try to pursue them , They go home and fantasize about being with that person but they didn’t have the courage to approach them , sadly a lot of people lie about themselves , thinking someone will still accept them if they lie and that’s where people are wrong , Everyone is different on what they are really attracted to , just because you think someone isn’t attractive , it doesn’t mean everyone else is going to agree , People that mainly focus on image are in for a rude awakening when they realize image really doesn’t mean shit , it does to a certain degree but the heart is what’s most important , people that focus on image more than the heart are people that will never experience true love they will experience constant failed relationships because they are selfish people , When people learn to be honest within themselves and within others they will realize not everyone is perfect and we all have flaws , we all assume the worst case scenario when it comes to liking someone , especially these days , Love comes from within ourselves not from appearance , the heart is what matters most , when you find someone that loves you for your heart , keep them at all costs cuz sadly that shit is hard to find these days , I feel social media played a big part on how we all look at each other these days , making people feel like that have to starve themselves and work out like crazy just to be accepted not realizing it’s a bunch of garbage , to make money off of people , When you learn to value Yourself worth and learn to love yourself for who you are that’s when others will notice you ,

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

It's fairly common - but obviously far from universal - for women with really big boobs to be heavier overall, even if they aren't "fat." For example, Christina Hendricks (Mad Men/Firefly):

Why do guys assume that big boobs = overweight?

She's short, and you can see from her arms that she's not fat (her stomach too, though her dress could have disguised a bit of a belly, so the arms are a better measure), but she's "thick" along with the huge boobs.

Of course that doesn't mean there aren't girls who are slender overall but have big boobs - there are, and I've met some - but that's more the exception than the rule.

Given that it's more common for girls with big boobs to be heavier, I wouldn't say that it was an unreasonable assumption/question, but hopefully those guys realize that it doesn't apply to all women, and that there are certainly girls who are skinny with even enormous boobs.

This is Lucie Wilde. Prior to her pregnancy, she was a natural 34L (European 75HH). Obviously she isn't fat in any respect, and yet had gigantic boobs. She had a reduction after her pregnancy and is now "only" a 34G.

Anyway, part of the reason you might get some men asking these questions in the first place is because women can be very good at hiding what they look like, using filters and camera angles and other tricks to tell a very different story on their profile than how they are in real life. Here's a good example - watch to the end:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/VZnxAAIRcJs

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

Just where has this assumption suddenly appeared from, as I've certainly never heard of it.

Of course it does go without saying that we need to give the guys some space, certainly on subjects they have absolutely no knowledge about whatsoever!

PizzaPieMamaBear · Accepted Answer

and on queue @annacarsimama2 .. she’s 4’10 97 pounds and her boobs just got bigger she’s a full D at that size!! Def nowhere near overweight! I’m gonna text you 👩‍🍼

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

This is the first time I hear this. This guy along with many other guys don’t assume big boobs are associated with being overweight. In fact there’s a lot of guys who look past a woman being overweight if her boobs looks good.

If anything you hear this from women, especially flat chested women. These are the women who assume this the most in order to feel good about themselves

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

Because overweigh girls tend to have "overweight boobs" to match. It makes sense. Not that guy think all big boobs belong to big girls. Not at all. But we do think that big girls probably have big boobs (because they usually, and generally do!)

ManOnFire · Answer

I have rarely heard this, but I have heard it. It's only stupid guys who think that, and probably the ones who have an aversion to big breasts or feel overwhelmed or intimidated by them, so they try to put them down. Some men feel this way because they think about the size of their own dick in comparison to big breasts, and fear that a woman could have bigger boobs than their own dick.

Lots of women with big boobs are not overweight.

SlothySlob · Answer

I know too many sad fat women. The sad fat where she's huge, but no tits. It's like God decided, or her fat has consciously decided that fat will not be stored anywhere near their tits.

I don't think men assume big tits = overweight, we just know that fat is also stored in the breasts. Also, I don't know what the fuck you talking about, there are too many guys out there literally worshiping women who have bigger than average tits.

RavVid · Answer

Usually big boobs = big every where. Not universally but a lot of the time. But where is this assumption being made?

Normally we'd just look at you and decide if you look overweight. If it is some form of social media and there is just a pic of your breasts like above then I guess we wouldn't any option but infer from other clues. Like your arms/shoulder in the pic and possibly the waist band at the bottom.

If you are actually skinny with big boobs than put up a full body pic.

megabamse · Answer

Because most of the breasts consists of fat. And the fatter a lady is the most likely the bigger the breasts are. BUT as it is with most things that are not always the case. Sometimes a fat lady has tiny titts and sometimes a skinny lady have bit titts

hotwheelz78 · Answer

BECAUSE TYPICALLY THAT HOW IT IS... BIG BOOBS=BIG ALL OVER. NOT TOO MANY WOMEN ACTUALLY HAVE THE IDEAL 36/24/36 " FRAME... ME PERSONALLY I PREFER MY WOMEN TO BE "BIGGER"THAN "SMALLER" MEANING I'D RATHER MY GIRL BE TOO THICK THAN TOO SKINNY. BUT THAT'S JUST ME.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Because if it's not true now, it's going to be eventually. Big boobs have extra weight, so they make it harder to run. And people who don't work out and exercise get fat.

This is especially true of short women who have big boobs. They always turn out roly-poly by the time they reach their 40s or at least 50s.
I don't mean to be mean, though. It's just factual. I've seen it many times.

Fabiloso · Answer

Massivity can just create visual assumptions simce typically no skinny girl keeps the big titties. But the thiccer girl typically makes her titties grow. Just a general assumption in the brain. I do it all the time still.

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's MUCH more common for girls to say that. I remember once hanging out with a group and a couple of the guys were talking about how this girl who wasn't there was insanely hot. And a girl in the group goes, "Joanna? What? She's FAT!" And all the guys were like "she most certainly is not!" She was basically a unicorn with HUGE naturals on a tiny, fit frame. Awesome!

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Because in many instances, you can be fat and have big boobs. Vast majority of your breasts are made up of fat, along with breast tissue. Lose weight, and oftentimes, you'll lose breast volume.

RockyHammock · Answer

Ill take the heat for this one, having a favorable fat distribution doesn't exclude you from the overweight label. Also, gaining weight means bigger field artillery, losing weight drops it proportionally. Its only natural to make that assumption.

smilelots · Answer

do thay or is that what your thinking we think lol breast size as nothing to do with the size of the woman ,, but it can play a part for some.. after all it is fat right with nipples.

wittymilf · Answer

It is less common to have large boobs on a small frame

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I never assume. I don't like the whole me potentially being an ass thing for assuming.

Pegases · Answer

Most women with big boobs are overweight. So its simply just an assumption.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Many times overweight girls will choose a picture focused on their cleavage and not showing all their body.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

those look nice. i usually get girls with at least a C or Big B and perky.

fonduegirl · Answer

It's generally true, unless you spend quality time with gym

jshm2 · Answer

They don't But it's just a good conversation starter for some.

notwoke · Answer

by this age, I've noticed that every natural pair of big boobs eventually gets attached to big ass, unfortunately, it's the body type. Fat women make me angry and sad

Strong_Warrior · Answer

If a man showed his bulge that topic would be removed. Because the society is double standart when it comes to mens rights.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I don't, and I've never heard any guy say that.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I never thought that and don't know ANY guys that think that.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

because it usually/often is true. Of course, not always. That's why inductive reasoning is screwed.

scooogy · Answer

I'd rather say a broader chest (= big boobs) correlates with a taller body and/or more body fat (= weight)

Kelly6 · Answer

It’s common mostly for women who produce breast milk , including me

CaptainSmartass · Answer

I don't I just think big boobs are hot. Simples...

Mangospacho · Answer

I don’t necessarily mind it but big boobs does sometimes mean overweight.

Anonymous · Answer

Because generally it's true. Love your big boned self.

Anonymous · Answer

because some fat chicks have big knockers other skinny chicks have big fake juggs and some have all natural fun bags. but big hooters are always fun to play with

SunnyRS · Answer

That's completely wrong.  I don't believe it ever.

Anonymous · Answer

I’m 4’11 97 pounds (44kilos) my boobs are huge ivr never heard this before

Nikki1989 · Answer

Some men are idiots.

Anonymous · Answer

Most guys I know like girls with bigger boobs, but I haven't heard them assume that. At least not from the girls they talk about from my school

Rohaan2020 · Answer

I don't assume that... and don't know why others would believe that

jjj101010 · Answer

Not necessarily, some girls r busty and slim,

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

Not at all.. I love boobs.. i can never get enough of them..

Anonymous · Answer

Generally boobs are fat deposits.. so if a girl has big boobs she obviously would have more fact elsewhere too

Anonymous · Answer

I don't. I love large boobs and don't think it means over wieght

Anonymous · Answer

They don’t. We also see the face, neck and body.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

We don't

CateM · Answer

I've never heard of this

humanearth · Answer

We don't, where do you get this idea from?

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Says who? Never heard

Anonymous · Answer

Because of their experience.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know. I've never met someone who did.

TheFlak38 · Answer

because for most women that is true.

AimeeKyle · Answer

Not sure, That isn’t always true.

LiamJHayden · Answer

They don't get out enough.

clampfan101 · Answer

I don’t. That’s silly.

shanshu · Answer

I don't think that, I just like boobs

In_Trance · Answer

Because quite often that's the case

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

I associate big boobs with motorboating.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I don't and I love big boobs. What size are yours?

Dat-Alpha-Lion · Answer

Because excess fat goes to boobs and butt?

lpoots · Answer

or have  false plastic breasts

abc3643 · Answer

Not anymore.

MementoMori777 · Answer

I dont

Redcupsolo · Answer

They don't.

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