My boyfriend thanked me for our relationship?

[Anonymous]

So he sent me like 4 messages in a row and then told me ,"Im bombarding you with messages... I just wanted to talk to you, because we have really good relationship. Thank you. I love this."

I've never been thanked for a relationship... what does it even mean?

Dont you find it odd?

[Anonymous]

That’s a good sign actually he appreciates you and does not.. take you for granted.
In my dating experiences I have noticed Asian men are kind as this.. say thank you. I’m European my boyfriend is Japanese when I would say even goodnight he would say “thank you “ lol I was confused as you. I thought was he trying to avoid me? Etc etc but it turned out some cultures raise men like this.. appreciative!


No it’s not odd. It’s a good sign.

[Asker]

How you know he is not taking me for granted?

[Asker]

My boyfriend is a English hooligan
Bad boy

[BrookeS]

I dont find it odd. He just wants to make sure that you know that he treasures you and that you are the best thing in his life. You are the one that makes him smile and happy. I wpuld be honoured to have someone atually tell me that.

[NamerOfStars]

Odd? Yes. But appreciative, which is always a good thing. He likes you and what you're doing together; don't let his expressing it awkwardly get in the way of that.

[Asker]

Oh...

[Jltakk]

I would have said the same thing if I had a partner.

[Asker]

What for
What would be your motive

[Guy13]

To be honest, it is women like you that make guys shut down. Just let him go if you are going to turn everything nice into hateful negative and your hyper critical nature is insulting. Get a dog...

[Asker]

Wait a damn minute
Did i say smth bad?
I just ask what i means
Never happened to me before
Where did i turn it into smth bad
Wtf

[Asker]

Where its hyper critical?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Awe... he really likes you and you make him super happy.

Time to leave his punk ass for a new guy!

[Asker]

Why?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Nothing. I'm just kidding

[WanderingLoveWizard]

About the 2nd part

[Asker]

Lol ok jaja

[boggboss]

Just seems like he has had shitty experiences in the past

[Asker]

Why do you think so?

[boggboss]

Because he is either really cringy damaged or Insecure to feel the need to say this

[Asker]

Insecure about what?
Me?
Thinks i dont like him?
Its bad sign he said it to me?
So it Is weird he said it then?

[boggboss]

Insecure about being in a relationship

[boggboss]

And it going well

[Asker]

Such weird perception
Id never sensed he is insecure in a relationship
Why would be insecure? thinking im leaving him?

[boggboss]

Because of a bad past or maybe feels you are better then him or he isn't good enough

[FeelingGroovy]

Seems normal.

[In_Trance]

Did he rail another woman or what?

[Asker]

No
Why is that?

[Still-alive]

it is a good thing. don't overthink it