Why hasn’t he asked me out? is he just looking for a pen pal?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been chatting daily for 3 weeks. Yesterday I mentioned him that I used to play basketball.

He said ” I used to play basketball too. I’ve wanted to know if I still have the skills. Perhaps one day we should do 1vs1 and see who’ll win”

Where we live is cold currently so it’s not like some activity that we could lo right now. He’s hinted twice at hanging out.

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Do right now*

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Any opinion?

[magiusX26]

you and this other asker need to compare notes/stories

https://www. girlsaskguys. com/dating/q5009968-what-made-one-guy-ask-me-out-on-bado0-when-we-don-t-know-each-other? utm_source=dynamic&utm_medium=androidapp&utm_campaign=question&utm_content=q5009968

[cryscrys1]

He has hinted 2ice at hanging out ~ there you go. It’s your turn to upgrade the hint into a real scenario. Ask him what he is doing this weekend? And that if you can meet!

[Asker]

So that wouldn’t be desperate and pushy?

[Asker]

Why is it my turn? I thought guys should make his interest clear and pursue the female…

[cryscrys1]

Pursuing doesn’t exist if you don’t make a single move at all either. Because then he enters the stalking category. What hint have you given? 1 hint for him to realize to ask you out?
It’s not pushing at all.
Do you know when humans stay in one position longest in their life? When they are pooping. You don’t walk and poop right? You stand in one place. That’s what you are doing a poop move. Be strong and show him a damn hint
“ Hey do you like pizza? Let’s go out this weekend “
Wth why do you make your life so hard..

[cryscrys1]

Don’t worry too much because you aren’t asking him to marry you but have lunch hang out getting to know each other etc. When it comes to marriage yeah I agree with you the men should ask🌸

[Asker]

I was the first to start a conversation although he started to view my instagram without even following me at first