I'm always scared he's losing interest when it's not the case?

[Anonymous]

This happens with every guy. We meet, we click. As we get more familiar he doesn't flirt AS MUCH as in the beginning, and I start being all paranoid that he's losing interest (when he isn't and he's just more used to me). I think I've been having this problem ever since my last boyfriend lost interest in me. Does anyone else have this problem? How do I stop doing this ?!

[Anonymous]

So I feel you, I also get this feelings but know I tell myself if so then well... I´ll gain someone else interests...It does hurt me but I need to move on somehow right...I just take more care of myself and when complemented I feel like his lost...Just do something nice for yourself and stop worrying to much you will think that is to much into you...

[Anonymous]

well, you've recognized the problem. that's a start. now, recognize when you're getting those feelings, and realize you're likely just over-thinking things. unless you get other real signs of loss of interest, just chill out.

[Anonymous]

HI GIRL I'M JOHN N YOU NEED TO STOP THE SELF DOUBT COS IF HE IS THE RIGHT ONE FOR YOU HE WILL NOT LOOSE INTEREST JUST TAKE THINGS SLOW N DNT AVAIL YOURSELF TOO MUCH OR TOO LESS COZ IT MIGHT HURT YOU! INSTEAD ASK HIM QUESTIONS AS A WAY TO KNW HIM BETTER N FIND OUT WHETHER HE IS HAPPY WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP N WHAT HE WANTS IN A RELATIONSHIP. LOOK AT YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR N SAY I LUV YOU TO THE BEAUTIFUL IMAGE YOU SEE! TAKE CARE

[evangelista]

HOW BEAUTIFUL JOHN...IAM TOUCHED!