Help, I feel miserable. why is this happening?

[Daisy_97]

I used to date a friend of mine.. everything started with a drunk kiss ( it was the first time that we were sawing each other after many years.).. it was soo good, high chimstry and deep conversation. I dated him for a month but I blocked him cause in a date he didn't come and said to me that he fell asleep. We were just dating and didn't have sex only kiss.. Regarding relationship the only thing that has been said was from his side and it was like, its too early right now, we must know each other better.

He contacted me after 2 months in another app.. begging me and said that this time things will be serious and things has changed.. I ignored him.. The case is that today I just learned from other friends that he those times ended a relationship that was longer than 1 year and it was serious.

I feel like mistress. I feel dirty and easy. So ashamed of myself. This has never happened to me before.. He is still contacting me.. He doesn't know that I learned that he was in a relationship when we first met. I want to make him as miserable as I am,, what to do?
and why he is contacting me.. am I his backup plan?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

There's no reason for you to feel the way you do and no reason to get back at him.
You ignoring him is hurtful enough, just leave it there.

But you don't have to feel cheap and used. Plenty of people get caught in other people's lies, it's not your fault. He's just an asshole.
Just be glad you were the mistress and not the one being cheated on

[MementoMori777]

Why do you feel miserable, just don't give him a another chance and move on, if anything you should be happy all he got out of you was a kiss, cause you'd probably feel way worse if you would've had sex with him, and vengeance is never the answer, the best you can do is move on and let him rot by himself.

[boggboss]

U can't make him feel like you do because he was just looking for a ego boost

[Alex8736]

sounds tome that you were definitely a back up plan and the best way to make him miserable is blocking him on all sites including your phone going no contact

[Anonymous]

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