My boyfriend using bad words to me which hurts me a lot. I told him about this but he forgets everything when he gets mad but when it's about caring he would do anything for me what should I do to? And I loves him so much.
Understand this: What you know does not control your behavior.
You can know something is not right or bad for you and keep doing it.
I think we've all experience this yes?
I'll explain why that is. You have a conscious mind and you have a subconscious mind.
Mind is activity, movement.
You have to get both in coherence or harmony. If he doesn't alter his programming then the behavior won't change.
He wants to do right by you but until the conditioning change you won't see consistent, lasting results.
Tell him how much the cussing bothers you, and you will leave him if he doesn't stop.
I don’t like being called bad words either especially when I never disrespected him. You need to let him know how serious you are about it and the way it makes you feel. Be careful with your approach though. If he keeps doing it, you have every right to feel upset and it’s good to show that too.
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Use some bad words back... If he understands good.. if not better split ur ways... every one have his self respect.. n it must be given
He's violating your boundaries
You either accept it or you don't
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